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Foley: I’m not a pedophile because the pages were almost 18.

Today, former Rep. Mark Foley (R-FL) finally broke his two-year silence after the revelations about his lurid IM conversations with congressional pages. Foley conceded that his behavior was “extraordinarily stupid,” but throughout the AP interview, he stayed on the defensive:

markfoley234.jpgSays he’s not a pedophile: “The work I was doing was involving young children … You know, you hear the term ‘pedophile.’ That is prepubescent,” Foley said, noting a “huge difference” from lurid chats with teens on the brink of adulthood.

The children didn’t say no: “There was never anywhere in those conversations where someone said, “Stop,” or “I’m not enjoying this,” or “This is inappropriate,” he said.

It was a “momentary lapse of judgment,” Foley claimed. But he “carried on the computer conversations for months, asking about masturbation, sex, and other details,” the AP notes.

UPDATE: Watch part an interview with a West Palm Beach television station:



107 Responses to “Foley: I’m not a pedophile because the pages were almost 18.”

  1. tokin librul says:

    Technically, he’s correct.

    The proper term is “ephebophile.

    oh, and “First?”


  2. wearechange says:

  3. larkohio says:

    Foley is disgusting. He knew he was doing wrong, and did it anyway. If he wants a relationship with a man, then that is what he should do. Fine with me, but do not involve people who are underage, they are called children.


  4. The Republic of Stupidity says:

    And another bites the dust…

    Just another nail in the coffin…

    Another brick in the wall…

    One more stone in the basket…

    And little more proof that the GOOP isn’t fit to lead pigs to the trough…

    Not to demean swine…


  5. joe cantwell says:

    in the meantime michael reagan,

    son of ronald reagan (he never fails

    to remind people of this) has a plan

    to go after dems on sex.

    *

    the irony of it all.

    *


  6. Alejandro says:

    Why don’t have have a seat right over there?


  7. misshusseinmolly says:

    Foley is technically correct in that pedophilia is the sexual obsession with pre-pubescent children, and apparently all his leering targets were past the age of puberty (although still minors).

    This doesn’t reduce the ick factor, though. Even though these young men weren’t pre-pubescent, they weren’t adults, and their minority should have been respected by Foley.

    Furthermore, there seems to be something very disturbing about a grown man who can’t find anyone his own age to play with. And the fact that the kids didn’t say “no” isn’t a defense.


  8. Lungman424 says:

    Holy Moly, is there some big secret prize out there for the Repuglican who says the stupidest thing wins?


  9. spencers mom says:

    Are you f’ing kidding me, TP? You put the word “pedofile” (can’t spell it correctly or else moderated!) in the title of the piece! What I tried to say was:

    The children didn’t say no: “There was never anywhere in those conversations where someone said, “Stop,” or “I’m not enjoying this,” or “This is inappropriate,” he said.

    Spoken like a true ped_ophile.

    PEACE


  10. Alejandro says:

    Why don’t you have a seat right over there…


  11. Alejandro says:

    We’ll be right back with “To Catch a Predator” with Chris Hansen.


  12. Uncle Fester Lurks says:

    Thats kind of like a murderer saying I’m not a murderer, when I shot the guy he was almost dead already from the beating he took from my partner.

    Almost doesn’t mean is Foley, you sick little perverted repiglican phuck!


  13. Fred says:

    misshusseinmolly Says:
    Foley is technically correct in that pedophilia is the sexual obsession with pre-pubescent children, and apparently all his leering targets were past the age of puberty (although still minors).

    Monika was in her 20’s lest we forget the outrage.


  14. ralph the wonder llama says:

    Is it just me, or does Foley bear an uncanny resemblance to the character of Mr. Humphries, the very gay sales clerk on the British sitcom Are You Being Served?


  15. rocks911 says:

    Another closeted republican freak


  16. DNFP says:

    I’m horny for politics.


  17. Shayne says:

    My daughter is a student council/leadership geek, the kind of kid who wants to be a page when she’s older. Our congresswoman has already offered her a spot. Unfortunately thanks to Foley her dad has already said no.


  18. citizen_pain says:

    It’s the hypocrisy assh0le! Red-state (no longer..woohoo)conservative politicians rail against gays, and here we have a guy that was preying upon young kids that obviously held him in very high regard.


  19. jpopphan says:

    OK, so he’s technically correct that he’s not a paedophile. He is, however, an ephebophile. Furthermore, he conducted himself in an appalling manner, getting into some pretty disgusting chat with minors.

    Foley’s problem is really with himself. He is a self-hating homophobe who isn’t “man” enough to come out of the closet and seek a relationship with another man closer to his own age. I also want to point out the hypocrisy that he exhibited by being secretly gay but supporting heinous anti-gay legislation.

    Foley is a traitor to himself, other gay men and most of all to the boys who trusted him. For that there can be no forgiveness.


  20. Uncle Fester Lurks says:

    Lungman424 Says:

    Holy Moly, is there some big secret prize out there for the Repuglican who says the stupidest thing wins?
    “““““““““““““““““““““““““
    Heh…George W. Bush is the undisputed champion, gold medal winner of saying the stupidest things but it does seem like a lot of republicans are fighting for the silver medal.


  21. raynman says:

  22. Fred says:

    Where are the good christains on this. Surely they are as appalled as us heathens by this kind of behavior. Where’s the outrage?


  23. Max-1 says:

    .

    Well,
    Parse it he wishes, the law still delineates between a 17y.o. and an 18yo…
    … One an adult, the other a minor.

    ,


  24. RWeSafer says:

    The “prize” for any bad actions should be no media coverage at all.

    No forum for the Tom Delay, Foley, Rush, or any of these “folks”.
    Any outlet gives them a mic, we have clear evidence of yellow journalism and they get boycotted.

    It’s time to cast our economic vote carefully and wisely.

    Talk about your value-add proposition…


  25. Fred says:

    Why hasn’t he had a visit from one of the boy fathers? I know if it was my son this sob wouldn’t be walking without pain.


  26. ElBruce says:

    The fact that Foley and Haggart are now both coming out of the woodwork kind of concerns me.

    But he’s got a point. There’s a difference between jailbait and loli’s, and treating them as exactly the same situation is nonsensical. That said, Foley is a horrible person for a great number of reasons.


  27. shoeless says:

    Max-1 Says:
    ——————————————————————————–
    Well,
    Parse it he wishes, the law still delineates between a 17y.o. and an 18yo…
    … One an adult, the other a minor.

    Yes, unlike most Republicans, what he did was not illegal. It was just perverse and really creepy.


  28. shoeless says:

    Dr. Hussein Matt Says:
    ——————————————————————————–

    Who is the singular central character for the downfall of the GOPigs?

    a. Tom “bug killer” Delay
    b. Newt
    c. dubyah
    d. Drugbaugh
    e. KKKarl Rove
    f. other

    f. Katrina


  29. Bilbo Hussein Baggins says:

    Wow, talk about rationalizations. I am so glad this guy is out of office. On the other hand, is anyone keeping an eye on him?


  30. trollsbwild says:

    The man is still DISGUSTING.


  31. hussein toasterhead says:

    misshusseinmolly Says:

    This doesn’t reduce the ick factor, though. Even though these young men weren’t pre-pubescent, they weren’t adults, and their minority should have been respected by Foley.

    November 12th, 2008 at 12:46 pm
    _______

    Even if they were over 18, it’s still icky just due to the working relationship.

    Pages are like sub-interns, staffing a very exclusive club of very-pampered Congressmembers. Most of them probably view their jobs as the first step in a career in government, and they’re going to want to make an impression with anyone who can help them get a few more toes in the door. And if one of these pages starts getting instant messages from one of these members, he/she is going to jump at the chance to brownnose a bit with someone who can help them. So much so that the page might overlook some really sleazy things the Congressmember is saying.

    It’d be like a basic cable news pundit making lurid statements to a college-age intern. It’s not just about age or pedophilia or ephebophilia, it’s about power.


  32. Buckie Boy says:

    Typical Repuke, “I’m not to blame” mentality.

    Just how many hidden in the closet of this type of Repuke are out there?

    Alot….repressed sexual urges of the conservative mentality causes this kind of thing.

    The list of Repukian perverts is too long to bother to list here.

    Short list of perverts -

    RaptureReady

    How’s that Phuckabee presidency working for you, psycho.


  33. Fred says:

    ElBruce Says:
    But he’s got a point. There’s a difference between jailbait and loli’s, and treating them as exactly the same situation is nonsensical.

    monika was in her 20’s


  34. Shayne says:

    He should have been sued for sexual harassment shouldn’t he.


  35. tokin librul says:

    I guess I, too, am a terrible person, since I–already in my 60s–would LOVE to have just one more lover in her 20s…just one more…juicy, firm flesh, energetic, curious…yummmmmm…

    Yeah, I’m a BAAAAAADDDD person…


  36. Leftside Annie says:

    Yeah, Mark Foley – way to take personal responsibility: “they were *almost* men!!”

    Perverted freak. Jebus.


  37. Fred says:

    tokin librul Says:
    ——————————————————————————–

    I guess I, too, am a terrible person, since I–already in my 60s–would LOVE to have just one more lover in her 20s…just one more…juicy, firm flesh, energetic, curious…yummmmmm…

    Yeah, I’m a BAAAAAADDDD person…

    These kids were 16 & 17. You shouldn’t be surprised if thier dad wanted to kick your ass for it.

    monika was in her 20’s and I’m sure you remember the outrage over her age.


  38. tokin librul says:

    Fred, get censorious much?
    These kids were 16 & 17. You shouldn’t be surprised if thier dad wanted to kick your ass for it.

    monika was in her 20’s and I’m sure you remember the outrage over her age.

    or is it envy?

    who said anything about teenagers?

    monica had her presidential kneepads when she left seattle. she knew what she was doing, and offered.

    How much younger is “too much?” Cindy McCain was born in ‘54, when he was already an 18-year-old cockhound.

    Lots of old men sport MUCH younger trophy wives/lovers…

    As do lots of older women sport boy-toys…

    Seems to me the people mostly objecting are the ones n ot getting any…


  39. shinzon says:

    The age of consent in D.C. is 16.

    Just because you think the age difference makes his advances “icky” doesn’t make him a criminal.

    If he could be charged with anything it might be sexual harassment, or creating a hostile work environment.


  40. tokin librul says:

    If he could be charged with anything it might be sexual harassment, or creating a hostile work environment.
    November 12th, 2008 at 1:27 pm

    you got it…it looks like he was probably propositioning those kids, using his position and authority to impose his desires… That’s where the abuse occurs…


  41. RUCerious says:

    Geebutz, could this jerk be more disgusting?


  42. RUCerious says:

    Statute of limitations on prosecuting this perv?


  43. Max-1 says:

    .

    So, I watched the update video and still, he’s using his past trauma to excuse his predatory nature to lure, soon to be, young men into sexual dialogue. The law is clear, 17yo ARE minors, no matter what a priest did to you when you were 12yo. However so, this mixing of his past of being abused by a priest is just that, a smoke screen to hide behind, a strawman argument, if you will, that sets into place the unfounded rationale that at some level his predatory nature is not his fault. Then Mr. Foley, was it the priest from your past that was sending lude texts to these minors?

    Classic abuser excuses… “It was done to me, too, and that makes it alright, yes?” No Mr. Foley, especially when you accept being in charge of an anti-predatory action group set up and designed to protect “MINORS” from the exact same behavior you engaged in.

    .


  44. Fred says:

    tokin librul Says:
    who said anything about teenagers?

    I did, these kids were teenagers unlike monika. That’s the only point I was trying to make.


  45. Buckie Boy says:

    tokin librul Says:
    I guess I, too, am a terrible person, since I–already in my 60s–would LOVE to have just one more lover in her 20s

    Frankly, yes, you are…anyone who is at age 60 who thinks anyone in their 20’s is a delusional pervert and needs to see a shrink.


  46. Buckie Boy says:

    Correction

    ….60 who thinks anyone in their 20’s would want to have sex with them is a delusional pervert and needs to see a shrink.

    Sorry doing two things at once here.


  47. bitblt says:

    Fred Says:

    Why hasn’t he had a visit from one of the boy fathers? I know if it was my son this sob wouldn’t be walking without pain.
    November 12th, 2008 at 1:00 pm

    Perhaps the boy’s father is more sensitive and tolerant than you, more progressive, and less repressed. You’ll need to find a liberal to list all the other positive qualities that would prevent one from confronting this guy.

    bit would go with this reason for not confronting: Capital police are very well armed.

    misshusseinmolly Says:
    .
    .
    .
    a grown man who can’t find anyone his own age to play with. And the fact that the kids didn’t say “no” isn’t a defense.
    November 12th, 2008 at 12:46 pm

    didn’t say “no” isn’t a defense.”

    bit agrees. But this is the same defense, in fact, that’s often mentioned on TP regarding homosexuality and same-same gender marriage, so-called.

    That defense is if it isn’t harming someone, how is it anyone’s business what two consenting people do in private. That’s the defense this guy is using.

    In the area of sexual behavior it appears that if a society isn’t promoting the best – one man one woman in marriage – anything and everything is Ok!

    ( a la Savage calling San Fran mayor “Any twosome” Newsom)

    BTW, when the young man Lawrence King was murdered in CA for “having a crush on his male classmate,” bit posted a link to a study that indicated among young men who came out early, 2/3 of them had had experience with an older male.


  48. tokin librul says:

    who said they’d want me, cully…

    I said only that I would love to have one more youthful lover…

    Nothing about my having one…

    So sioux me…

    One thing, I’m poor…which militates strongly against my achieving it…

    But if a young woman were–in the admittedly delusional, odd, extreme off-chance–to take a fancy to me, i wouldn’t refuse
    her…

    mebbe that’s just me…


  49. EugeneDebs says:

    Bit is a hater, a moron, and a fool. Bit should take his hatefilled ignorance fold it till its all corners and deposit it where the sun never shines


  50. dbadass says:

    Everything okay today bit?


  51. Great Frybread King says:

    Like most Republicans, Mark Foley does not take responsibility for his actions. Typical.


  52. Jackie says:

    No surprise as he continues looking for kids to molest. What’s sad is Family took the money to not charge him for his crimes and now with that and the help of his fellow Law Makers Foley is still looking for kids.


  53. Anacher Forester says:

    Sure, and I’m not bald because I can grow a beard.

    -AF
    Andrew Sullivan Is A Fraud


  54. Fred says:

    tokin, you and blt are some sick puppies. Guess you guys think foley’s a really nice guy.


  55. DNFP says:

    “I’m not gay, I just like the way it feels.”


  56. Who Lied Today? says:

    The fact that he says “the children didn’t say no” in itself speaks of how wrong he is.


  57. ralph the wonder llama says:

    I think you’re right to be concerned, dbadass… bit doesn’t seem his old pedantic, sanctimonious self today.

    Maybe it’s just that he has to defend a predatory homosexual because he’s a Republican.


  58. DRxJ says:

    Interesting.
    Foley makes sexual advances with minors, and nothing happens (except for embarrassment).
    His excuse? They were ALMOST of age.
    This, my friends, is disgusting.
    Let’s play devils advocate for one stinking moment.
    What if it had been a Dem congressman making lurid, graphic advances towards an underage female or females?
    Why, the right would demand nothing short of a public lynching.
    Which brings up a second point. Did he have sex with these minors? And if so, would he be punished to the full extent of the law, like the 17 year old black teen aged male from Georgia who is serving a hard sentence of 10-12 years (I think) for performing oral sex on a 15 year girl, ONE TIME???


  59. Ivy9 says:

    I’m not surprised 17 year old boys would engage in immature sexual texting, geez, what 17 year old isnt a bit obsessed with sex? But Foley should have known better. “Technically” the pages were “practically men” but I’d say Foley is “technically” a PATHETIC OLD LOSER.


  60. avchavis says:

    This fool acts as if someone is supposed to feel sorry for him or let him off the hook! This wasn’t a ‘momentary lack of judgement’ – this was just sick pedophilia! Foley’s no better than other predators using the internet to lure minors. I just want to know why he’s not in jail?!


  61. shoeless says:

    Well, bit isn’t actually defending the Republican pedofile. He just thinks that we should be more “sensitive and tolerant” toward Republican pedofiles.


  62. EugeneDebs says:

    shoeless Says:

    Well, bit isn’t actually defending the Republican pedofile. He just thinks that we should be more “sensitive and tolerant” toward Republican pedofiles.
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    And hate gay people more


  63. ralph the wonder llama says:

    shoeless Says:
    Well, bit isn’t actually defending the Republican pedofile. He just thinks that we should be more “sensitive and tolerant” toward Republican pedofiles.

    Point taken, shoeless.


  64. MapleStreet says:

    So his homosexuality was fine. And the only problem was a technical definition since the kids were almost 18.

    Clinton was with a woman and she was of age.

    Both were misusing their position of authority on the podium of the US Govt.

    So shouldn’t the repubs at least admit that Clinton was more acceptable ?


  65. the Lone Voice of Reason says:

    Bitnit says:BTW, when the young man Lawrence King was murdered in CA for “having a crush on his male classmate,” bit posted a link to a study that indicated among young men who came out early, 2/3 of them had had experience with an older male

    Bitty, you are a closet case aren’t you? It’s ok, you can come out here, just leave the third person nitwit behind


  66. the Lone Voice of Reason says:

    I still think that man should be talking from a jail cell right now


  67. bitblt says:

    shoeless Says:

    Well, bit isn’t actually defending the Republican pedofile. He just thinks that we should be more “sensitive and tolerant” toward Republican pedofiles.
    November 12th, 2008 at 2:13 pm

    Get it right. bit was suggesting that the father, or fathers, or the boy, or boys, involved were more tolerant and sensitive that Fred.


  68. tokin librul says:

    Is there a person on here who, if approached sexually by a desirable young person of compatible lusts and inclinations, and being otherwise not ‘engaged’ or pledged, would refuse the advance?

    really?


  69. GL2814 says:

    Foley is a disgusting pig who deserves to be strung up by his cajones.


  70. tokin librul says:

    i would add, “a desirable young person of compatible lusts and inclinations”, having reached the legal age to consent to engage in such activity…


  71. tokin librul says:

    “cajones” isn’t the word you think it is…

    properly, it might mean something like “lockers” or “trunks” or “big boxes”…

    “cojones” is the word you want…’testicles’


  72. grover nerdkissed says:

    …so you see, Foley is the *real* victim here!


  73. bitblt says:

    There’s no hate in suggesting that a young man is “made” a homosexual by contact with an older homosexual. That was the purpose of noting there was a study that said 2/3 of young men who come out at an early age have had an experience with an older homosexual.

    It’s a study. It’s only good until there’s a better one.


  74. bitblt says:

    For the record – pixelated of course, bit was a page, but he doesn’t remember being gay as fashionable at that time.

    In fact “gay” wasn’t the word(s) used at that time to describe that life choice.


  75. EugeneDebs says:

    bitblt Says:

    There’s no hate in suggesting that a young man is “made” a homosexual by contact with an older homosexual. That was the purpose of noting there was a study that said 2/3 of young men who come out at an early age have had an experience with an older homosexual.

    It’s a study. It’s only good until there’s a better one.
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    Yes there is hate, ignorance, and basic stupidity. You cannot show homosexuals are not intrinsicly so. I know I had no choice in MY sexual orientation why in the world would it be different for homosexuals? I guess you closet cases that had to make that choice might see it differently but I dont know of ANY of my hetero friends who had any choice to make about who they were attracted to. You consistantly biased sources are nothing but a waste of time as is your ignorance and hateful bigotry. Gay people have always been with us they always will be with us. NONE of what they do is any of your business unless you want to join in. Eventually haters like you will lose this argument. Eventually it will be seen as a joke that we ever made this an issue and people like YOU will be the punchline.


  76. EugeneDebs says:

    bitblt Says:

    For the record – pixelated of course, bit was a page, but he doesn’t remember being gay as fashionable at that time.

    In fact “gay” wasn’t the word(s) used at that time to describe that life choice.
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    Ist not a choice because you say so you hateful bigot. You cannot prove its a choice I dont know any homosexual or for that matter ANYONE who thought their sexual orientation was a choice. You just WANT it to be a choice so you can feel better about your bigotry. Wishing wont make it so. You are a bigot, a hatefilled bigot. Time to come to grips with that reality


  77. EugeneDebs says:

    tokin librul Says:

    Is there a person on here who, if approached sexually by a desirable young person of compatible lusts and inclinations, and being otherwise not ‘engaged’ or pledged, would refuse the advance?

    really?
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    Yes. I got tired and bored with young girls when I was in my late twenties still dating girls in their early twenties the second time I had to explain to one of them that Paul McCartney had been in a band before wings. And these were gorgeous Southern California girls. I found myself contemplating hanging myself 20 minutes into dates. So yeah, I got over it.


  78. Zooey says:

    Zooey thinks bitblt is an ignorant fool. In fact, Zooey knows bitblt is a complete idiot.


  79. bitblt says:

    So these questions come to mind:

    Was Rep. Mark Foley (R-FL) making a choice, or was he helpless in controlling his behavior?

    Were the Representative partners making a choice, or where they also helpless in controlling their behavior?


  80. Zooey says:

    Zooey is of the opinion that bitblt has just confirmed her an@lysis.


  81. dbadass says:

    Is bit suggesting that the potetnial outcome of complex biochemically controlled aspect of development is equivalent to self control?


  82. EugeneDebs says:

    bitblt Says:

    So these questions come to mind:

    Was Rep. Mark Foley (R-FL) making a choice, or was he helpless in controlling his behavior?

    Were the Representative partners making a choice, or where they also helpless in controlling their behavior?
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    This question comes to MY mind why is bit so hatefilled and ignorant. Men that are attracted to women sometimes make inappropriate advances toward them. Homosexuality itself is NOT inappropriate just because bit is a hatefilled bigoted moron. So your question just has no relevance whatsoever.


  83. bitblt says:

    dbadass Says:

    Is bit suggesting that the potetnial outcome of complex biochemically controlled aspect of development is equivalent to self control?
    November 12th, 2008 at 4:04 pm

    No. bit was suggesting that EugeneDebs was suggesting that self control is out the window? …like,… not possible.

    Is dbadass suggesting something casual?


  84. bitblt says:

    Is dbadass suggesting something causal or something casual?


  85. dbadass says:

    That was the purpose of noting there was a study that said 2/3 of young men who come out at an early age have had an experience with an older homosexual.

    It’s a study. It’s only good until there’s a better one.

    – Yet bit consistently discounts studies which point to a possible biological origin as in the prenatal hormone theory. Is it possible that bit has a predetermined which studies suit bit and which do not?


  86. dbadass says:

    well the jury seems to be still out. Science tends to be a cautious thing.


  87. EugeneDebs says:

    bitblt Says:

    No. bit was suggesting that EugeneDebs was suggesting that self control is out the window? …like,… not possible.
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    Eugene thinks Bit is an ignorant hateful bigot for thinking homosexuals should NOT engage in behavior because BIT thinks it is wrong. Because in his ignorance and bigotry thinks its the same thing as making inapproprate advances to minors. Bit is hatefilled. Bit is ignorant. Bit is a bigot. None of that is likely to change because BIT WONT CHANGE HIS BEHAVIOR, that *I* find inappropriate


  88. bitblt says:

    No. bit was suggesting that EugeneDebs was suggesting that self control is out the window? …like,… not possible.

    Apparently this is what EugeneDebs was suggesting.


  89. Zooey says:

    Zooey thinks bitblt is too dense to understand that while sexual orientation does not come under the heading of “self control,” predatory behavior does.


  90. EugeneDebs says:

    bitblt Says:

    No. bit was suggesting that EugeneDebs was suggesting that self control is out the window? …like,… not possible.

    Apparently this is what EugeneDebs was suggesting.
    >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

    OK bit at this point you are just UNBELIEVABLY STUPID. I made my point perfectly clear. Homosexuals have no NEED to control their behavior because they arent doing anything wrong just because YOU THINK THEY ARE. It is exactly the same thing as YOU not controlling YOUR behavior by not being such an ignorant hatefilled bigot. THOSE are actions you CHOOSE not to change. Maybe because YOU DONT THINK THEY ARE WRONG. I cant dumb it down any further for your substandard brain and your inability to perform higher brain function


  91. EugeneDebs says:

    Zooey Says:

    Exactly. Bit is too stupid to understand that homosexuality is two consenting adults doing what they want and no one being hurt and predatory behavior has a VICTIM. Therefore the point he THINKS he has doesnt exist


  92. bitblt says:

    Your last remark doesn’t take into account the fact that there are people who leave the homosexual life choice. They make a different choice.


  93. dbadass says:

    I’ve never met one. Obviously bit complex behaviors have multiple origins and my hunch is that these folks are either deeply conflicted by a society which treats them with so little dignity or not truely homosexual in the first place. As a fancier of stats might you offer up some data as the real numbers of converted?


  94. EugeneDebs says:

    bitblt Says:

    You keep calling it a choice because you are a hatefilled ignorant bigot. You cannot show its a choice and unless you are a frustrated closet case you have no reason to believe it is a choice other than it is helpful for your bigotry. People have always tried to deny who they are in many arenas and especially this one. Why would they want to expose themselves to the scorn, bigotry and prejudice of morons like YOU. They try to conform to get along. That really means nothing. Keep being ignorant. Keep being a bigot. Keep denying reality. You are a cruel joke and a disgusting bigot.


  95. Zooey says:

    Eugene,

    I think we should just leave bitblt to his naughty naughty fantasies..


  96. bitblt says:

    dbadass Says:

    I’ve never met one. Obviously bit complex behaviors have multiple origins and my hunch is that these folks are either deeply conflicted by a society which treats them with so little dignity or not truely homosexual in the first place. As a fancier of stats might you offer up some data as the real numbers of converted?
    November 12th, 2008 at 4:34 pm

    Only stat that comes to mind at this point is that the recidivism rate is quite high, like 70%.


  97. dbadass says:

    What does that seem to imply to bit?


  98. bitblt says:

    It implies to bit that the recidivism rate it very high.


  99. dbadass says:

    So bit is comfortable projecting that gender preference is a choice but uncomfortable pondering why “conversion” seems to be larely bunk?


  100. bitblt says:

    bit is remembering another stat, but could not find the source for this one.

    It was a survey that had supposedly been done around the country. In states other than CA, about 6% of school kids in the survey admitted to having had “homosexual feelings.” In CA that number was 18%.

    The only confidence bit puts in these numbers is the 3 to 1 ratio.

    bit understands that there might be several explanations for this.


  101. bitblt says:

    So bit is comfortable projecting that gender preference is a choice but uncomfortable pondering why “conversion” seems to be larely bunk?

    Believe you’re leading the witness there, counselor.

    The fact that the recidivism rate is so high doesn’t mean that the “conversion” therapy is bunk. It is a a discouraging number, bit’s sure.

    bit’s comfortable with this APA quote about the cause of said malady.

    What causes a person to
    have a particular sexual
    orientation?

    There is no consensus among scientists
    about the exact reasons that an individual
    develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay, or
    lesbian orientation. Although much research
    has examined the possible genetic, hormonal,
    developmental, social, and cultural influences
    on sexual orientation, no findings have
    emerged that permit scientists to conclude
    that sexual orientation is determined by any
    particular factor or factors. Many think that
    nature and nurture both play complex roles;
    most people experience little or no sense of
    choice about their sexual orientation.

    “Most” above would mean more that half, at least 51%, would it not? Which would mean that the some, those who aren’t in the “most” category, would range from 49% down to 1%, and they would have had a sense of choice, correct?

    BTW, what would the recidivism rate have to be before dbadass would consider homosexuality a choice?


  102. davidual says:

    …and the serial killer said that he’s not a murderer because nobody could stop him from showing off his absolute brilliance. Give us a break Mark…


  103. pete says:

    Give it up already, stupid troll. It’s impossible to make people more ignorant so, you’ll get no takers here.


  104. Crazy Cat Lady says:

    Token,

    You’re cool, I get it. I’m not sure why everyone else is trying so hard to misunderstand you.

    And just for general thought, when I was a 17 year old “just starting to get fat” girl with a foxy 34 year old high school band director, I’d have done almost anything he asked. When your hormones are raging and you’re lookin for love, teenagers make stupid choices. That’s why it’s GOT to be the adult’s job to just say NO.

    Flame away…


  105. EugeneDebs says:

    David

    The staggering level of your stupidity is noted. You can return to your bridge now


  106. motorfingaz says:

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    Just like the cold war when everyone who didn’t agree with the U.S. was either a communist or a communist sympathizer. toki This poor crazy guy spent half a decade being tortured because a bunch

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    was in bed with the Russians (minimal help) and/or the Chinese (ancient enemy of the vietnamese). ssk sorgulama You would think he would have learned from others’

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    century it apparently will be all Muslims, health all of whom must

    be alQaeda operatives.



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