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David Tyree: I Would Trade Super Bowl Win To Stop Same-Sex Marriage | Last week, ex-New York Giants receiver and Super Bowl XLII hero David Tyree said that if same-sex marriage passes in New York, it would lead to “anarchy.” Now, in an interview with the New York Daily News, “Tyree told reporter Kenneth Lovett that if he could, he ‘probably would‘ trade the fourth-quarter catch he made as he jumped just over New England Patriots safety Rodney Harrison” that “extended the Giants’ winning drive and proved to be the backbreaker the G-Men needed to shock the world in a 17-14 upset.”

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Tennessee Discrimination Law May Have Gone Further Than Intended | The Tennessee Legislature recently passed a law overturning LGBT non-discrimination ordinances like the one Nashville had passed. According to a new lawsuit, the damage was more severe, and may have also voided school board anti-bullying policies that protect LGBT students. The bill’s language was broad enough to include any form of local government and policy in relation to which classes can be “protected.”

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Another Defeat For The ‘Gay Panic’ Hate Crime Defense | A Michigan Court of Appeals ruled today that the claim of “gay panic” does not hold up to defend the actions of a hate crime assault. The argument, as it was presented in this trial, was that Dale Cutler was so threatened that Ryan Young would come on to him that he had no choice but to inflict serious harm upon him. A jury found Cutler guilty of assault with intent to inflict great bodily harm and he was sentenced to 11 to 25 years in prison. (Read the full Appeals Court ruling.)

White House Press Secretary Challenged On Obama’s 1996 Gay Marriage Questionnaire

This afternoon, the Washington Blade’s Chris Johnson and Metro Weekly’s Chris Geidner asked White House Press Secretary Jay Carney about Dan Pfeiffer’s recent claim that a 1996 questionnaire in which Barack Obama said he supported same-sex marriage was not written by the president, despite his signature being affixed to the bottom of the document.

The White House has since walked back the claim, insisting that Pfeiffer was referring to a different survey, and during today’s exchange, Carney reiterated that the document was, in fact, signed by Obama. “Dan was referring to another questionnaire,” Carney said. He would not say if Obama supported marriage equality in 1996. Watch it:

Coming Out Makes LGBT People Feel Happier (If They Aren’t Judged For It)

A new study from the University of Rochester finds that the process of “coming out” has significant emotional benefits for people who are lesbian, gay, or bisexual. While previous studies have documented the effect, they did not take into account the impact of the environment in which a person might come out:

By teasing out the effects of different contexts, this study shows that “environment plays a huge role in determining when coming out actually makes you happier,” says Nicole Legate, a doctoral student at the University of Rochester, who led the study with Ryan and Netta Weinstein from the University of Essex in England. Among accepting groups, individuals experience significant psychological payback from being open about their sexual identity. But among hostile groups, the costs and stigma of identifying as lesbian, gay, or bisexual cancel out these benefits.

In judgmental contexts, “those who come out may actually feel no better than those who conceal,” says Legate.

It has long been a claim of anti-LGBT groups that being LGBT is the reason why LGBT groups face numerous health and wellness disparities. This is circular reasoning, but particularly so in light of this study. By continuing to propagate stigma, opponents of equality are contributing to the very negative well-being they then use to prop up their own arguments.

This study also speaks to the importance of gay-straight alliances (GSAs) in schools. Young people might be aware of their sexuality as early as middle school, and GSAs help create the positive environment that allows coming out to be a rewarding experience. Conversely, studies have demonstrated that conservative attitudes about sexuality increase the suicide risk for teens. In addition, prejudice-motivated bullying leads to long-term physical and mental health concerns. The school environment is crucial for making sure that queer teens are set on a path to live healthy and happy lives.

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Gov. Perry Partners With ‘Apostle’ Who Says 9/11 Was God’s Wrath For U.S. Embrace Of Homosexuality | Texas Gov. Rick Perry has recruited a variety of extreme right wing organizers for his upcoming prayer event, The Response. One such figure is Doug Stringer, a Texas “Apostle,” who publicly declared the United States had only itself to blame for the Sept. 11 attacks because of its acceptance of homosexuality and the general “licentiousness or moral looseness” it brings to society. – Jen Kalaidis

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The Muslim Equivalent Of The Sassy Gay Friend

At a Netroots panel I went to on Friday, someone in the audience got up and asked the panel what Muslims in America who want to fight Islamaphobia could learn from the American gay rights movement. Adam Serwer rightly pointed out that one thing the gay community has on its side that Muslims don’t is deep penetration into popular culture. Even if you don’t know gay people in person, it’s almost impossible to watch television or see movies without encountering gay characters, even if only the archetype of the sassy gay best friend. Katie Couric is right that we need a Muslim version of the Cosby show. But more than that, I think we need a positive, plug-and-play archetype for Muslim characters so we can have not just one show that portrays American Muslims, but many.

Obviously, those gay archetypes are problematic: they turn people into stereotypes, they’re limited, they arguably elide the most powerful part of gay difference by being sexless, they erase the fact that there’s more than one kind of gay person. But as the thinnest edge of the wedge, they’re a powerful tool, as long as people stand behind them with a mallet and a lot of creative ideas. And I doubt we’re going to immediately get a wide, humanized variety of Muslim characters on television in America without some sort of intermediate step.

The thing is, I have no idea what that archetype would look like. I threw the question out on Twitter. Ramsin Canon suggested the main character in East Is East. Neil Lambert jokingly proposed a snappy halal cook (which would be an interesting appropriation of the foodie trend). And there were several nominations for Abed from Community, a suggestion that is, of course, dear to my own heart and that I think has some compelling possibilities. As Mike Wasson put it: “Wacky personality + being comfortable w/ US pop culture—while being distinctly Muslim—should prevent othering.” But Benjamin Blattberg, came back with what I thought was a useful framing of the question: “If Jews bring liberalism and homosexuals bring aesthetics, what’s the Muslim cultural mark?”

The sassy gay friend has its failings as a cultural trope, but it does offer something more than simply peaceful coexistence: there’s a clear value add there. If you overcome your fear (assisted by the harmlessness of the stereotype) and let your gay coworker or the Queer Eye guys into your life, you’ll emerge with a better sense of style, better taste in wine, renewed self-confidence. Abed’s a good neutral character, a demonstration that one person can love divergent religious and secular cultures. But we need something affirmatively positive, a promise to mainstream American audiences of how getting to know your friendly neighborhood Muslim will open up your world.

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New York Marriage Vote Still Up In The Air | Via AP: “Two Republican state senators in New York say no decision was made on the fate of gay marriage after a three-hour meeting behind closed doors Monday. The senators, speaking on condition of anonymity, say gay marriage is tied up in negotiations with other issues including rent control in New York City and a statewide property tax cap.” The vote could still be days away.

Could Religious Exemptions Exempt Marriage Equality From Any Meaning?

Sen. Greg Ball (R) could be the swing vote needed to pass marriage equality.

As the debate around marriage equality in New York reaches its (hopefully) final days, much of the conversation is focused on “religious exemptions.” These could be any number of special provisions that allow religious organizations — and perhaps even businesses — to exercise a religious objection against recognizing same-sex marriages. Sen. Greg Ball (R), who could be the swing vote needed to pass the marriage equality bill this week, has called for such carveouts for businesses, which are not part of any existing same-sex marriage law.

Carlos Maza at Equality Matters and Jeremy Hooper at Good As You have both thoroughly debunked the claims that such “protections” are needed. For example, Maza recently pointed out that New York already prohibits discrimination against same-sex couples by adoption agencies (Lambda Legal Memo PDF). Catholic Charities would not be “forced” to stop their services; marriage equality would change nothing about the standard they are held to.

The important takeaway, though, is that these religious exemptions could undermine marriage equality entirely. Same-sex couples seek to be recognized as a form of protection, whether it’s their ability to take care of each other, take care of their children, or live free of discrimination. As the New Jersey Civil Union Review Commission found in its study of civil unions, same-sex couples suffer greatly if their relationships are not recognized as marriage (PDF):

In a number of cases, the negative effect of the Civil Union Act on the physical and mental health of same-sex couples and their children is striking, largely because a number of employers and hospitals do not recognize the rights and benefits of marriage for civil union couples.

No religion is being asked to redefine its tenets to recognize same-sex couples. The argument for these exemptions is actually a straw man for opposing marriage equality. Religious groups do not see it as a compromise, as many religious leaders have made it quite clear that they would not support the bill any more with the exemptions than without. Even if the language were enough to get an affirmative vote from Senators like Ball, it could actually compromise the entire value of the bill.

It’s unclear what carveouts might be included in the bill, or whether the bill will even come to a vote today. But, if the legislature insists that members of society be allowed to reject or ignore same-sex marriages, it would be a message to same-sex couples that true equality is still a long ways off.

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Buffalo Radio Station Runs Unfair Marriage Poll | As the New York Senate prepares to vote on marriage equality, a poll from Buffalo radio station WBEN asks listeners how they “feel about gay marriage.” The station lists four anti-equality answers and just one ambivalent supportive response, listed last. Prop 8 Trial Tracker is running a petition asking the station manager “to give fair representation to all sides.”

Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund President: We Will See A Viable Openly Gay Presidential Candidate In 20 Years

During an appearance this morning on CSPAN’s Washington Journal, Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund President Chuck Wolfe predicted that America will see its first viable openly gay presidential candidate in five election cycles:

WOLFE: I think we may see a candidate in 5 cycles, that’s 20 years. [...] You have too build the bench here. So we’re spending a lot of time on the trainings, and getting people elected as mayors. We have a few state-wide elected officials today. Often somebody has a better chance if they’re a governor or U.S. senator, having been elected statewide to have an existing base to run for president of the United States. So, we’re beginning to see more people step into those ranks. And as we build that cadre of officials throughout the country, you’ll see some candidates prepared for the oval office.

Watch it:

Wolfe noted that Fred Karger, an openly gay presidential candidate vying for the Republican nomination, is already in the race, but said the Victory Fund has not endorsed him given his lack of electoral experience.

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Negotiators Say ‘A Deal Is Near’ On Marriage Equality In New York | Via New York Post: “Negotiators for the Republican-run Senate privately admitted that a deal is near after aides spent the Father’s Day weekend ironing out language to appease ‘religious liberty’ concerns that have been raised by several fence-sitting GOP senators. And public pressure has reached a tipping point, as about 200 supporters of the bill held two raucous rallies near Union Square yesterday.” The vote will likely take place today.

The Morning Pride: March 20, 2011

Welcome to The Morning Pride, ThinkProgress LGBT’s 8:45 AM round-up of the latest in LGBT policy, politics, and some culture too! Here’s what we’re reading this morning, but let us know what you’re checking out too.

- Today is perhaps the big day for marriage equality in New York state! At last count, the Senate only needs one more vote to make equality a reality. Proponents rallied yesterday to pressure the Senate to bring the bill to a vote. The New York Daily News also reported that marriage equality would bring $184 million in revenue to the state.

- We are safely back in DC after an exciting week in Minneapolis at the Netroots Nation conference. Carlos Quiroz has some video highlights of some of the LGBT sessions, and make sure you see our exclusive coverage of Lt. Dan Choi ripping up an Obama 2012 flier after being approached by a conference attendee who said he couldn’t support marriage equality.

- Another important moment from the weekend was when White House Communications Director Dan Pfeiffer denied that Barack Obama had written the letter supporting marriage equality that he signed in 1996. In yesterday’s New York Times feature on Obama’s “evolving” position on marriage, the White House said Pfeiffer didn’t know what he was talking about, but also suggested that Obama was referring to civil unions at the time. Openly gay Rep. Jared Polis (D-CO) has come to Obama’s defense, calling him ”the best president this country has ever had on LGBT issues.”

- GLAAD (The Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation) continues to face scrutiny about whether their President, Jarrett Barrios, has actually resigned and under what circumstances. Barrios was pressured to step down for mishandling the organization’s relationship with contributor AT&T.

- Rep. Michele Bachmann (R-MN) was the latest target of a “glitter bomb” after speaking at RightOnline (Photo Credit: Jim Gehrz). Activist Rachel E.B. Lang shouted at Bachmann, “You can run, but you can’t hide.”

- The Church of England has cleared the way for gay individuals to become bishops, so long as they remain celibate.

- As part of his efforts to make amends for his anti-gay rant, comedian Tracy Morgan spent some time meeting with gay teens at a shelter in New York City.

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