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Fox News ‘A-Team’ Psychiatrist: Being Married Three Times Could Make Gingrich A Better President

Assuming Marianne Gingrich’s allegations are true, Newt Gingrich reacted to news of his own wrongdoing by attempting to justify his deplorable behavior (asking for an “open marriage” after he’s already cheating) and then proceeding to continue down that path anyway (dumping Marianne for Callista). While most would be repelled by such actions, Dr. Keith Ablow of Fox News’ “Medical A-Team” believes Gingrich’s personal choices would not negatively impact his performance as president. In fact, Ablow argues’ that Gingrich’ ability to attract so many women is a sign that the rest of the country will fall for him too:

You can take any moral position you like about men and women who cheat while married, but there simply is no correlation, whatsoever—from a psychological perspective—between whether they can remain true to their wedding vows and whether they can remain true to the Oath of Office. [...]

Conclusion: When three women want to sign on for life with a man who is now running for president, I worry more about whether we’ll be clamoring for a third Gingrich term, not whether we’ll want to let him go after one.

Ablow’s words speak for themselves, and should not be surprising. Here’s a look back at how Fox News’ resident psychiatrist regularly insists on letting men off the hook for failed marriages:

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ABC Scores Big At The GLAAD Media Awards And NAACP Image Awards

ABC has been very, very good at building diverse casts and rosters of characters for television shows, and minority media groups recognized them for it earlier this week. When the nominations for the NAACP Image Awards came out, ABC was in the mix in prime time with Modern Family in Outstanding Comedy Series, Vanessa Williams in Desperate Housewives, Damon Wayans, Jr. in Happy Endings, Sofia Vergara for Modern Family, Grey’s Anatomy for Outstanding Drama Series, Taye Diggs in Private Practice, Chandra Wilson, Sandra Oh, Loretta Devine, and James Pickens, Jr. for acting on Grey’s Anatomy. And the network snagged an additional eight nominations in the GLAAD Media Awards, including Grey’s Anatomy and Pretty Little Liars in Outstanding Drama Series, Happy Endings and Modern Family, and the episode “Acceptance” on Man Up!.

I’m particularly glad to see the love for Happy Endings, which has its flaws, but I think is the best group-of-friends comedy on television right now. At the Television Critics Association press tour, I asked creator David Caspe how he came up with the character of Max, who I think is one of the most balanced portrayals of a gay man anywhere in popular culture right now. Caspe said that while he knows Max has gotten praise for avoiding being either totally nelly or totally butch, he just based the character on a friend of his. It’s evidence of the fact that pop culture will get more diverse not only as the country does, and generational turnover (hopefully) makes the entertainment industry less white and dudely, but as white dudes have more diverse groups of friends and more contact with other kinds of people.

Similarly, Revenge, about which I really should be writing more, has done a nice job of getting different kinds of people into what’s typically seen as a hegemonic enclave. They’ve got both race and class in Ashley, who is trying to make her way in a world that looks down on her more for her economic station than (at least explicitly) her skin color. And Nolan is gay and techie and something entirely behind the standard menu of gay stereotypes. Tyler’s bisexuality was handled as if it was no big deal — neither he nor Nolan have ever had a conversation about their sex lives that’s about orientation, just individuals. Sometimes, I think TV shows get themselves hung up on the idea of diversity because they think they’d have to tell stories that are explicitly about the experience of being diverse. But it turns out that black people and gay people want things that don’t have to do with being black and gay.

NEWS FLASH

Salt Lake Chamber Of Commerce Endorses LGBT Protections | The Salt Lake Chamber of Commerce is now calling for a statewide law banning employment and housing discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity, saying that they would be good for business in Utah. The Chamber’s president, Lane Beattie, explained that “it’s an unwise policy” to limit nondiscrimination policies just to the 13 Utah cities that have passed them so far. Though the bill that would create the protections has languished in the conservative legislature, a 2011 poll showed that two-thirds of Utahns support a statewide non-discrimination law.

STUDY: Stigma Harms Older Gay Men’s Mental Health, But Marriage Equality Helps

A new study released today by UCLA’s Williams Institute finds that sexual minority stress —a lifetime of stigma — has significant consequences on the mental health of older gay men, but notes that access to marriage creates a protective effect that counteracts some of the negative outcomes. The study’s key findings:

– Minority stressors were significantly associated with mental health, heightening depressive symptoms.

– Older gay men’s aging-related stressors are amplified because discrimination and disassociation have impacted their ability to be financially secure and independent.

– Personal “mastery” (high self-efficacy, self-esteem, and crisis competence) helped mediate the mental health impact of stressors, but did not account for any positive effect.

– Conversely, emotional support helped mediate the effect of stressors on positive affect, but did not help curb depressive symptoms.

Having a same-sex domestic partner, or ideally a legal spouse, boosted both positive affect and helped reduce depressive symptoms.

These results jibe with previous studies that demonstrate the compounding impact of stigma on older gay adults, but they also help reveal a core flaw in the arguments made by those who oppose LGBT equality. When conservatives claim that there are “health consequences” to homosexuality, they are contributing to those very consequences by proliferating anti-gay stigma. This study suggests the best way to support the health of gay adults is to advocate for their right to marry those who they care for.

NEWS FLASH

Wanda Sykes Weighs In On Rick Santorum’s Homophobia | Openly gay comedian Wanda Sykes weighed in on the GOP presidential field last night on NBC’s Tonight Show. Asked about Rick Santorum, Sykes responded, “if you really believe homosexuality is a sin, and we’re going to hell, then why the fuss? If you think I’m going to hell, then you’ve already won. So just shut the hell up and let God take care of it…You leave me alone!” Watch it:

NEWS FLASH

White House Asked If Obama Will Endorse Marriage Equality In State Of The Union | White House Press Secretary Jay Carney swatted away questions about President Obama’s “evolution” from supporting civil unions to embracing marriage equality, during this afternoon’s briefing. Asked if Obama has been reading books to inform his position, Carney said, “I don’t have an update for you on that” and reiterated the president’s record on LGBT issues. Carney also told the Washington Blade’s Chris Johnson that he wouldn’t rule “in or out” the possibility that Obama would endorse same-sex marriage during Tuesday’s State of the Union address. Watch it:

Obama first told blogger Joe Sudbay that he was evolving in his support for marriage on October 27, 2010 and has been asked about the progress of that evolution ever since.

Why LGBT Coloradans Have A Harder Time Obtaining Health Care In Five Graphs

A new survey of 1,300 LGBT Coloradans finds that the community faces substantial challenges in obtaining access to affordable and timely health care as compared to their heterosexual counterparts. For instance, LGBT respondents “were more likely to report factors that have been associated with poor health outcomes due to workplace and societal discrimination, family and social rejection, and minority stress” and had a harder time finding LGBT-friendly providers or revealing their sexual orientation or gender identity to their provides. “Transgender/gender non-conforming Coloradans endure even greater challenges to accessing, affording, and receiving quality mental and physical health care when compared to transgender people nationwide,” the report concluded.

Here are the results in five graphs:

Read the full report here.

NEWS FLASH

75 Big-City Mayors Come Out For Marriage Equality | Freedom to Marry held a press conference this morning to officially announce the launch of “Mayors for the Freedom to Marry,” a bipartisan group of more than 75 mayors “who pledge to support marriage for gay and lesbian couples.” Participants include Mayor Antonio R. Villaraigosa of Los Angeles; Mayor Jerry Sanders of San Diegol Mayor Thomas M. Menino of Boston; Mayor Annise Parker of Houston; and Mayor Marilyn Strickland of Tacoma. Below is the full list:

Update

Mayor Mark Kleinschmidt of Chapel Hill, NC discussed his involvement in the group with Thomas Roberts on MSBC this morning:

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A clip from the press conference via Boy in Bushwick:

NEWS FLASH

Fox News’ Gretchen Carlson Overjoyed About Inclusion Of Lesbian In Miss USA | Last night, self-proclaimed Independent Gretchen Carlson — one third of the friends on Fox News’ morning show Fox & Friends — told Bill O’Reilly last night that the “breakup of the family” will be the biggest cultural story of the 2012 presidential election and accused the media of persecuting Christians who believed in “traditional” families. Carlson, a former Miss America, also discussed the inclusion of an open lesbian in this year’s Miss California USA competition, calling the development “fantastic.” She joked that the erosion of “traditional” values could eventually lead the competition to admit people who are not “women.” Watch it:

Lesbian Woman Claims Hospital Barred Her From Visiting Her Partner

“A Maryland woman says she was denied the right to visit her same-sex partner at Washington Adventist Hospital,” the Associated Press is reporting, and has filed a complain with the Joint Commission and the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services at the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. The woman, Linda Cole, claims that the hospital “refused to recognize her as family” and did not let her see her partner Kat Wilderotter until Wilderotter’s sister Kristen intervened:

Wilderotter says when Cole followed her ambulance to the emergency room, she was stopped at the front desk and not allowed to be at her side – until Wilderotter’s sister arrived.

“So Kristen goes up and says, ‘Hi. I’m Kristen. My sister Kat has been admitted and I’d like to see her.’ And the woman at the front desk said, ‘We have family here now’ and let Kristen back. And Kristen brought Linda back. And as they were about to cross through the doors, Kristen took Linda’s hand and said ‘I know what just happened here,’” said Wilderotter.

Watch the local report:

Md. Same-Sex Couple Files Discrimination Complaint Against Hospital For Denying Visitation: MyFoxDC.com

The hospital is attributing the incident to a “misunderstanding between the staff and Ms. Cole.” “I am very sorry that Ms. Cole felt anything less than fully valued when she came to our hospital because as a matter of both policy and practice, we treat all people who come through our doors the same regardless of their faith, tradition, ethnicity or their sexual orientation,” the hospital president said.

Last year, the Obama administration finalized a policy requiring hospitals that receive Medicare and Medicaid funds to allow patients to designate their own visitors as well as who can make emergency medical decisions, including same-sex partners.

NEWS FLASH

New Splinter Presbyterian Group Opposes Gay Clergy | Presbyterians opposed to ordaining gay clergy have split from Presbyterian Church (USA) to form a new denomination called the Evangelical Covenant Order of Presbyterians. One of the founding ministers, John Ortberg of Menlo Park, explained that “the problem is people are going to hell.” It’s unclear how many congregations will join the new splinter group, but they will be able to retain membership in both orders if they wish. In addition to the Presbyterian Church, the Episcopal Church, United Church of Christ, and the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America all ordain gay clergy.

Tony Perkins: Social Conservatives Are ‘Not Judgmental’

The Family Research Council’s Tony Perkins appeared on MSNBC this morning to discuss last night’s GOP presidential debate and the recent revelations that Newt Gingrich allegedly asked his second wife for an open marriage.

The conservative leader — who regularly condemns gay people, “churns out brochures that compare same-sex marriages to those bonds which might exist between a man and a horse,” likens gays to terrorists, calls LGBT rights a battle of “good versus evil,” and claims gay teens kill themselves because they know that they’re “abnormal” — expressed concern about Gingrich’s personal past, but also raised questions about the wisdom of asking about his marriage during the debate. Ultimately, he suggested that Evangelical Christians are “not judgmental” and understanding, and could embrace a candidate who has sinned:

PERKINS: More than anybody, Evangelicals understand the story of Redemption, that people make mistakes and there can be a turning point. The tension becomes — have we reached that turning point on these issues and were they mistakes, were they character flaws that remain….People don’t want to be seen as that judgmental, because they’re not judgmental, but at the same time, they’re having some serious questions about the character of the candidate.

Watch it:

The hypocrisy between Gingrich’s private life and his public policies is staggering. The former House speaker describes same-sex relationships as a “temporary aberration” and promises to “support sending a federal constitutional amendment defining marriage as the union of one man and one woman to the states for ratification.” All the while he has been married to three different women and has cheated on at least two of them. Yet for “not judgmental” conservatives like Perkins, this kind of behavior is far more acceptable than allowing for the recognition of monogamous same-sex relationships or even the very existence of gay people.

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The Morning Pride: January 20, 2012

Welcome to The Morning Pride, ThinkProgress LGBT’s 8:45 AM round-up of the latest in LGBT policy, politics, and some culture too! Here’s what we’re reading this morning, but let us know what you’re checking out as well. Follow us all day on Twitter at @TPEquality.

- For the first time ever, all 100 of Fortune’s Best Companies To Work For have non-discrimination policies that include sexual orientation.

- The New York Times wonders if the political careers of Republican leaders can survive all their moral hypocrisy.

- South Carolina and Indiana both now offer pro-LGBT equality license plates.

- A Boston doctor who treats transgender youth feels it’s a “privilege to come into daily contact with people I think are heroes.”

- A young transgender activist named Kneena Raheja confronted Rick Santorum yesterday at a press conference, shouting that he has “spilled queer blood.”

- Focus on the Family has reacted to GLSEN’s study of elementary school bullying by trying to scare parents that their kids might might be “indoctrinated” with “Orwelling lessons” on “family diversity.”

- A Judge has ruled that seven conservative Episcopal congregations who broke away from the church because of its support for same-sex relationships could have to turn over more $40 million in property back to the church.

- Hate group leader Tony Perkins was back on CNN yesterday and MSNBC this morning.

- A new poll shows that 63 percent of French citizens support marriage equality.

- Actor Michael K. Williams (The Wire, Boardwalk Empire) is HRC’s latest American for Marriage Equality.

- A same-sex binational couple explains the financial hardships they’ve faced trying to stay together in the country:

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