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14-Year-Old Asks Maryland Lawmakers To Vote Down Same-Sex Marriage For Her Birthday | A 14-year-old girl celebrated her birthday with the Maryland’s Senate Judicial Proceedings Committee this afternoon and told lawmakers that it “would be the best birthday present ever if you would vote no on gay marriage.” “I really feel bad for the kids who have two parents of the same gender,” she said, “they have no idea what kind of wonderful experiences they miss out on.” “People have the choice to be gay, but I don’t want to be affected by their choice. People say they were just born that way, but I’ve met really nice adults who did change.” Listen:

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Cynthia Nixon Clarifies Bisexuality ‘Is Not A Choice’

It seems that Cynthia Nixon has found a way to follow up on last week’s flub with a statement that clarifies sexual orientation is not a choice without discounting choices she has made in her life. She told the Advocate today:

My recent comments in The New York Times were about me and my personal story of being gay. I believe we all have different ways we came to the gay community and we can’t and shouldn’t be pigeon-holed into one cultural narrative which can be uninclusive and disempowering. However, to the extent that anyone wishes to interpret my words in a strictly legal context I would like to clarify:

While I don’t often use the word, the technically precise term for my orientation is bisexual. I believe bisexuality is not a choice, it is a fact. What I have ‘chosen’ is to be in a gay relationship.

As I said in the Times and will say again here, I do, however, believe that most members of our community — as well as the majority of heterosexuals — cannot and do not choose the gender of the persons with whom they seek to have intimate relationships because, unlike me, they are only attracted to one sex.

Our community is not a monolith, thank goodness, any more than America itself is. I look forward to and will continue to work toward the day when America recognizes all of us as full and equal citizens.

As I suspected last week, she distinguishes between sexual orientation and sexual identity. For Nixon, it makes more sense to identify with the population of people with whom she is more likely to pursue relationships than the broader pool of people she might be attracted to, which seems perfectly reasonable. Unfortunately, her statement does not address the biphobia inherent in both her own identity choices as well as in the backlash she has faced over the past week. By conforming her identity to the gay-straight binary, she is reinforcing the very monolith it seems she wishes to challenge.

Nevertheless, Nixon’s point supports the ideal of a world where everybody can live their lives how they will without having to justify their identities, and for that, she should be applauded.

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North Carolina Groups And Leaders Resolve To Fight Inequality Amendment | Over the past few weeks, numerous North Carolina groups and leaders have spoken out against the proposed constitutional amendment that would ban same-sex marriage, civil unions, and domestic partnerships. On Friday, Lt. Gov. Walter Dalton (D) announced his opposition to Amendment One, a reversal of his 2005 cosponsorship of a similar amendment in the state senate. He admitted, “Perhaps I was wrong back then.” Among other groups that have come out against the measure are the Episcopal Diocese of North Carolina, North Carolina Advocates for Justice, and the student senate of North Carolina Central University, one of the state’s 11 historically black colleges and universities (HBCUs).

NOM’s Rebuke Of Starbucks Over Marriage Equality Is Blatant Hypocrisy

The National Organization for Marriage does not stand on any set of principles, but is guided solely by what it thinks will help defeat marriage equality for same-sex couples. In Washington, for example, NOM’s Brian Brown came out swinging against Starbucks for supporting the same-sex marriage bill:

BROWN: Americans should be able to drink a peaceful cup of coffee without worrying that a portion of the company’s profits is going to be used to push gay marriage without a vote from the people. This is a gratuitous leap into a hot button culture war issue; respect for diversity touted by Starbucks ought to include respecting the diverse views of all its customers and employees.

For Brown, “diversity” counts when it’s limited to only his views on marriage. Besides that, it’s a farce for NOM to act like it wants businesses to stay out of LGBT issues when it engages with them all the time. As Jeremy Hooper pointed out yesterday, NOM has repeatedly defended Chick-Fil-A for opposing LGBT rights. In fact, NOM now has a “Corporate Fairness Project” that bullies companies into staying affiliated with any employee or contractor who speaks out against marriage — regardless of how offensive their comments might be. Keep in mind too that NOM was on the front lines of the Proposition 8 fight, standing hand-in-hand with ProtectMarriage.com as it threatened businesses that were opposed to the discriminatory amendment.

It’s unclear why NOM targeted a Starbucks cup of coffee rather than a Nike shoe or an Internet search on Google or Microsoft Bing, as it would have to similarly boycott them all for supporting marriage equality in Washington. NOM’s duplicity is by no means surprising, but given the organization continues to commit millions to fighting marriage equality or retaliating against its supporters, its role in fights like Washington’s cannot be discounted.

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Maryland Senator Exposes Opponent Of Marriage Equality | Maryland Senator Jamie Raskin (D) tore into Brian Raum of the Alliance Defense Fund for suggesting that private individuals and businesses who object to same sex-marriage should be allowed to discriminate against same-sex couples during a Senate Judicial Proceedings Committee hearing this afternoon. In a two-and-a-half minute exchange, Raskin forced Raum to concede that hotels, motels, and restaurants — places of public accommodation — should have to serve gay people who want to be customers” and exposed a contradiction in the lawyer’s logic: “you testified that hotels, motels, and restaurants should be required to serve gay individuals, but you think we should write into the law they should not be required to serve gay married individuals?” Raskin asked. Listen as Raum stumbles through his response:

Maryland’s Same-Sex Marriage Bill Strikes Important Balance On Religious Conscience Protections

Maryland Senator Jamie Raskin

Maryland Senator Jamie Raskin (D) highlighted the additional conscience protections included in Gov. Martin O’Malley’s (D) same-sex marriage bill while testifying before the Senate Judicial Proceedings Committee this afternoon. “The challenge with this legislation is to reconcile our fundamental values of equal rights for all people with religious pluralism and toleration,” Raskin explained, noting that O’Malley’s legislation allows the legislature to decide who can marry in city hall, “but the church gets to decide who gets married in the church hall.”

As a result, church sponsored and operated facilites or social service entities are not required to “lend any of its accommodations, programs, or services for the purpose of promoting a marriage it disapproves of for religious reasons.” Private individuals and businesses who provide public accommodations are a different matter, however. Responding to a question from Sen. Christopher B. Shank (R) about extending the bill’s conscience provisions to include event hall operators or motel owners who object to same-sex marriage, Raskin pointed out that existing laws already prohibit discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation and warned that any further widening of the clause would erode existing protections:

RASKIN: If you set yourself out as a place of public accommodation, you’re open to the public. In any event, we’ve already driven over that bridge that you’re suggesting when we enacted legislation back in 2001 extending the public accommodation law to cover sexual orientation. So this nothing new. We already have laws that ban discrimination against gay people in the state and in a certain way we’re just extending that to the institution of marriage here. So it would be ironic if we used this legislation as an opportunity to roll back protections that gay people have to be served in restaurants, hotels, motels and other places of public accommodation.

Listen to the exchange:

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Maryland House Speaker: Marriage Equality Is ‘An Issue Of Civil Rights’ | Maryland House Speaker Michael Busch (D) doubled down on his support for marriage equality this morning, just as Gov. Martin O’Malley (D) prepares to testify about his same-sex marriage bill before the Senate Judicial Proceedings Committee. Speaking before a group of clergy, Busch called same-sex marriage “clearly an issue of civil rights” and said that gays and lesbians “should have the same rights — and let me say this, responsibilities — as everyone else.” The Speaker called on religious supporters of marriage equality to lobby delegates on the issue and predicted that the vote in the House will be “very, very close.” Same-sex marriage did not have enough votes in the chamber last year.

New Hampshire Governor Pledges To Veto Repeal Of Same-Sex Marriage In State Address

New Hampshire Gov. John Lynch (D) spoke out against the GOP’s effort to repeal the state’s same-sex marriage law in his State of the State address this afternoon and promised to veto any bill that strips residents of their “civil rights”:

LYNCH: New Hampshire has a long and proud tradition of fighting for the rights of all of our people and a tradition of leaving people alone to pursue their own hapiness. As Governor, I intended to uphold that century’s old tradition and I will stand firm against any legislation that will strip any of our citizens of their civil rights.

Watch it:

The New Hampshire legislature is preparing to vote on legislation that would undo marriage equality in the coming days, but some Republican lawmakers are hinting that they may not have the votes to override Lynch’s veto. Republicans — who hold veto-proof majorities in the both the House and Senate — remain split on whether the government should limit residents’ personal freedoms, the Concord Monitor reports, and the party leadership is hoping to avoid a prolonged debate on the issue.

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Rep. Allen West Tries To Walk Back Telling Obama To ‘Get The Hell Out’: ‘I Did Not Refer To Any Person Leaving’

Rep. Allen West (R-FL) once again sparked controversy with a demagogic speech in Florida this past weekend where he demanded that liberals and President Obama “get the hell out of the United States of America.” Now, West is engaged in a rapid backpedal, appearing both on CNN and Fox this morning to insist that what he said is not actually what he said.

On CNN, West demanded that a skeptical host Soledad O’Brien view the entire speech an realize that “he was simply trying to draw attention to the decline of a country” at the hands of people who hold values that are “not in concert with our constitutional republic.” “And if you can’t understand that,” he added, “please come down to South Florida, you and I can read the Federalist Papers.” Later on Fox and Friends, West told host Steve Doocy, “I did not refer to any person leaving”:

WEST: The other thing is that I did not refer to any person leaving. If you go back and read the transcript of the message that I gave, it was about equality of achievement, it was about economic dependence, it was about enslaving the American entrepreneur’s will and spirit. That message needs to leave this country. And that was what I was referring to. And I think that anyone that sat back and looked at the entirety of that 12 minute, 45 second speech would understand that we’re talking about a contrast of visions of this country.

Watch both interviews:

Looking back at the transcript as requested, it’s pretty clear that West specifically named “President Obama, Harry Reid, Nancy Pelosi and my dear friend, the chairman of the Democrat National Committee [Debbie Wasserman-Schultz]” to “take it to the North Pole, but get the hell out of the United States.”

Nonetheless, West has made a practice of lobbing incendiary rhetoric across the aisle and then blaming the news media for the resulting backlash. Reacting to Fox pundit Bob Beckel’s demand that West apologize, a somewhat thin-skinned West shot back, “I think Bob Beckel owes me an apology for saying that he would not refer to me as a congressional representative nor as a lieutenant colonel, retired.”

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Pentagon Sexual Assault Policy Disregards Same-Sex Couples | The Defense Department’s new Sexual Assault Prevention and Response limits eligibility for protections under the policy to “military dependents,” which includes only federally recognized spouses. The Servicemembers Legal Defense Network’s Aubrey Sarvis has written a letter to Defense Secretary Leon Panetta saying that he is “troubled” that this disqualifies same-sex couples under the Defense of Marriage Act and continues the “same sort of discrimination” as Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell. A Comprehensive Review Working Group promised to include “an element of fairness and equality” as officials implemented the repeal of DADT.

LGBT Activists In UAE Cite Hillary Clinton’s Historic Equality Address In Fight Against Ex-Gay Therapy

LGBT activists in the United Arab Emirates are fighting back against the country’s reliance on ex-gay therapy and hormonal treatments to “cure” homosexuals with Secretary of State Hillary Clinton’s call for nations around the world to treat gay rights as human rights. The latest ex-gay push in the UAE appeared in the form of a six-minute video tutorial, titled “Be Yourself,” in which masculine men are shown transforming an effeminate man by teaching him masculine gestures, cutting his nails and hair, and lowering his voice. Watch the clip:

Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transexual Rights UAE penned a letter “detailing the continued persecution facing the gay and lesbian community in the Gulf emirate,” in December. UAE law bans “obscenity and homosexual activity” and suspected gays and lesbians can be imprisoned for up to 14 years, receive the death sentence for “consensual sodomy” or be subject “to a medical procedure with no scientific basis, just for expressing their innate, human tendencies that are protected under the United Nations Universal Declaration of Human Rights,” the letter notes. It goes on to quote from Clinton’s landmark speech on LGBT rights before the U.N.: “On December 6th, 2011, Secretary of State, Hillary Clinton pointed out a fact that has been confirmed by a vast majority of the international, scientific community: ‘Being gay is not a Western invention; it is a human reality.’ She further articulated how ‘gay people are born into and belong to every society in the world.’”

The group’s founder, Abdullah, has condemned the video, noting, “It angers me no end, but it also saddens me, this video would have been devastating if my 16-year-old self had watched it.” The video “brought flashbacks to me how on endless hot Friday afternoons I was forced to observe how men interact, or how they drink coffee by my father, so that I should emulate to make him proud,” he said.

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Washington House Committee Advances Marriage Equality | The Washington House Judiciary Committee advanced the marriage equality bill yesterday in a 7-6 vote along party lines. Republicans introduced three different amendments to further expand “religious exemptions,” which would have expanded opportunities to discriminate against same-sex couples, but all were rejected. The full Senate is expected to vote on the bill sometime tomorrow, but lawmakers have not yet set a date for a House fiscal committee hearing.

Opponents Rally Against Marriage Equality In Maryland: ‘I Believe In Adam And Eve!’

Some 300 opponents of same-sex marriage rallied in front of the Maryland State House in Annapolis Monday night, calling on lawmakers to abandon legislative efforts to allow gays and lesbians to enter into civil marriages. The protest came on the eve of a Senate Judicial Proceedings Committee hearing at which Gov. Martin O’Malley (D) is expected to make his case for marriage equality later this afternoon. O’Malley — who is taking an active role in the marriage debate this legislative session — has introduced a bill in the Maryland Senate that includes additional protections for religious institutions.

“Marriage it hold the families together, without marriages you have no families, you have no society then, it will just crumble,” one protester predicted, as demonstrators carried signs reading, “God said it’s wrong, we agree with God,” “God’s Way Is The Best Way,” and “I Believe in Adam and Eve!” They also seized on First Lady Katie O’Malley’s description of opponents of same-sex marriage as “cowards.” “Last I checked, victors were not cowards,” one speaker proclaimed, “Tell Kate we are not cowards!” Watch a local news report from WJZ:

Members of the clergy who favor same-sex marriage will hold a news conference in Annapolis today.

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The Morning Pride: January 31, 2012

Welcome to The Morning Pride, ThinkProgress LGBT’s 8:45 AM round-up of the latest in LGBT policy, politics, and some culture too! Here’s what we’re reading this morning, but let us know what you’re checking out as well. Follow us all day on Twitter at @TPEquality.

- A HUD official has confirmed that the department’s new LGBT protections apply to religious institutions the same as any housing service provider.

- OutServe Magazine’s look at the military’s discrimination against transgender people has now been published online.

- A new Williams Institute report reveals that the number of same-sex couples raising children continues to rise, and these couples “reflect greater racial/ethnic and socioeconomic diversity than often represented in the media and academic research.”

- Anti-gay North Carolina pastor Patrick Wooden defends his obsession with crude sexual acts he believes all gay men do together.

- Responding to New Jersey Gov. Chris Christie’s remarks about voting on civil rights, Rep. John Lewis (GA-D) spoke out that “apparently the governor…has not read his recent history books,” pointing out that “most of the [Southern] governors were outright segregationists.”

- A Tennessee judge has given plaintiffs 30 more days to provide proof that the state’s ban on LGBT nondiscrimination ordinances harms them.

- In another interview, Tennessee Sen. Stacey Campfield (R) — sponsor of the “Don’t Say Gay” bill — continues to show he knows very little about sexual orientation, HIV, or bullying.

- Washington Gov. Chris Gregoire (D) describes correspondence she received from a young gay man who stopped considering suicide after hearing she had announced her support for marriage equality.

- Illinois Republicans continue to push for legislation that would allow religious institutions to deny adoptions to same-sex couples in civil unions.

- The newly Republican-controlled Virginia Senate has defeated a bill that would have protected state employees from discrimination based on sexual orientation.

- The New York Times profile of Tyler Clementi’s anti-gay privacy-invading roommate twists a few of the details.

- Equality activists fighting Minnesota’s marriage discrimination amendment have raised $1.2 million in their campaign so far.

- Canada now has a policy that essentially prohibits transgender people from flying.

- A video from the United Arab Emirates shows a “tutorial” for “scrubbing” a man of his homosexuality.

- Actor James Van Der Beek has been tweeting for equality lately.

- Watch: The View‘s Elisabeth Hasselbeck defends transgender children:

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