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Clementi Family: Webcam Bully’s ‘Apology’ Was Just A ‘Public Relations Piece’

Dharun Ravi began his 30-day jail sentence today for invading the privacy of his Rutgers University roommate, Tyler Clementi, who shortly thereafter committed suicide. Ravi offered his first attempt at an apology this week, but Clementi’s parents say they were unimpressed, calling it “no apology at all.” They released a statement today addressing Ravi’s short sentence and his subsequent statements:

We have respect for Judge Berman and we appreciate the manner in which he presided over the criminal trial of Mr. Ravi. Although we do not question the sincerity of his feelings, and we have never sought harsh punishment, we are troubled by the judge’s failure to impose even a short jail sentence on the several charges of criminal invasion of Tyler’s privacy and bias crimes.

As to the so-called ‘apology,’ it was, of course, no apology at all, but a public relations piece produced by Mr. Ravi’s advisors only after Judge Berman scolded Mr. Ravi in open court for his failure to have expressed a word of remorse or apology. A sincere apology is personal.

In addition to his 30-day jail sentence, Ravi must serve 300 hours of community service and spend three years on probation.

One Million Moms ‘Disturbed’ That JC Penney Is ‘Promoting Sin’ With Gay-Inclusive Ad

Right on cue, the American Family Association’s One Million Moms has expressed outrage at JCPenney’s new Father’s Day advertisement featuring a same-sex couple with their kids. Suggesting the ad is “promoting sin,” OMM attacks the store for “taking sides” instead of remaining “neutral” in the “culture war”:

One Million Moms (OMM) is disturbed that JCPenney’s (JCP) is continuing down the same path of promoting sin in their advertisements. In JCP’s June catalog, there is another homosexual ad, but this time with two dads celebrating Father’s Day. The advertising booklet began arriving in mailboxes yesterday. If their marketing department follows the same plan they did in May, this mailer will be available to view on their website on June 1. [...]

It is obvious that JCP would rather take sides than remain neutral in the culture war. JCP will hear from the other side so they need to hear from us as well. Our persistence will pay off! One day we will answer for our actions or lack of them. We must remain diligent and stand up for Biblical values and truth. Scripture says multiple times that homosexuality is wrong, and God will not tolerate this sinful nature.

OMM previously attempted to boycott JCPenney when the store announced Ellen DeGeneres would be its new spokesperson, but they abandoned that boycott as a failure. There’s nothing to suggest this second effort will be end any differently.

It’s worth noting that OMM’s notion of “neutrality” is complete fiction. Same-sex families are very much a part of our society and our communities. There is nothing neutral about choosing to ignore them. One Million Moms is an anti-gay organization with an anti-gay agenda, and they clearly oppose any business that even dares acknowledge that gay people exist, let alone that they could be welcome customers.

NEWS FLASH

New York Court Rules That ‘Gay’ Is Not Slander | A New York state appeals court has ruled that falsely calling someone gay or lesbian is no longer slander because society no longer sees being gay as a negative quality. The decision originated when a straight man sued a man for calling him gay, arguing that the insult hurt his relationship with his girlfriend. While such claims are perhaps rightfully deemed frivolous, this ruling ignores the harm done in schools everyday with the demeaning phrase “that’s so gay.”

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Catholic Cardinal Authorized $20K To Pay Off Pedophile Priests, Then Railed Against ‘Immorality’ Of Gay Marriage

Cardinal Timothy Dolan has led the charge against same-sex marriage, describing gay and lesbian unions as “unjust,” “immoral,” and unnatural. “This is a very violation of what we consider natural law that’s embedded in every man and woman and we’re really worried as Americans that it’s going to be detrimental to the common good,” Dolan said in a radio interview in June, as New York prepared to legalize marriage equality. “[W]e still worry about the detrimental effect upon society, upon culture, and certainly upon our individual churches.”

But church documents showing that Dolan paid off priests who had been accused of sexually abusing minors suggest that the prominent Catholic leader was willing to overlook these very same religious convictions to help colleagues accused of egregious wrong doing. The documents, obtained by the New York Times, also show that Dolan lied to reporters when he initially dismissed news of the payments as “false, preposterous and unjust”:

Cardinal Timothy M. Dolan of New York authorized payments of as much as $20,000 to sexually abusive priests as an incentive for them to agree to dismissal from the priesthood when he was the archbishop of Milwaukee. [...]

But a document unearthed during bankruptcy proceedings for the Archdiocese of Milwaukee and made public by victims’ advocates reveals that the archdiocese did make such payments to multiple accused priests to encourage them to seek dismissal, thereby allowing the church to remove them from the payroll.

Dolan had described at least one payment to Franklyn Becker — who had been accused of abusing 10 minors — as “an act of charity” to help the priest “pay for health insurance.” This comes to light as Dolan and the Church are expanding their campaign against a government regulation that would increase health insurance coverage of contraception for women.

NEWS FLASH

REPORT: Anti-LGBT Murders Increased In 2011 | The National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs has released its yearly assessment of hate violence (PDF) against people who are LGBTQ or HIV-affected, and though rates of violence declined by 16 percent in 2011, the number of murders increased to 30, the highest total ever documented. It’s possible, of course, that there was not an actual increase in murders, but merely in accurate reporting. Among those 30 murders, 87 percent of the victims were people of color, and 40 percent were transgender women. Young adults (ages 18-30) were almost 2.5 times more likely to experience physical violence as those age 30 and older. Countering homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia in laws, police forces, and communities at large can help reduce the risk factors for this community.

Update

Check out this great infographic provided by NCAVP:

Justice

DOMA Opinion Analysis: Why Judge Michael Boudin Is Just Like 50 Cent

As Alyssa Rosenberg observed recently, America’s struggle for marriage equality has now reached the stage where people who still harbor anti-gay sentiments are coming to terms with gay couples’ right to equality. Alyssa writes on pop culture, so she spotted this trend in an interview where rapper 50 Cent simultaneously endorsed marriage equality and revealed his homophobic fear that gay men would “grab your little buns,” but a similar sentiment pervades Judge Michael Boudin’s opinion today striking down the unconstitutional Defense of Marriage Act.

To be clear, nothing in Boudin’s opinion suggests that he fears marauding bands of gays will corner him in an elevator and play grab-ass, but Boudin goes to great pains to deny that a law that systematically excludes gay couples from the dignity of full marriage rights is motivated by “hostility to homosexuality.” “Traditions are the glue that holds society together,” Boudin proclaims, and the desire to maintain what marriage discrimination’s supporters call the traditional definition of marriage “is strong and can be honestly held.”

And yet Boudin ultimately concludes that the Constitution does not allow the federal government to exclude gay couples from federal marriage benefits once they are lawfully married by a state. He’s right about this, but he reaches this conclusion in a somewhat roundabout way.

Admittedly, Boudin’s task is muddled by genuinely incoherent Supreme Court precedents. Forty years ago, the Court said that minority groups that are “saddled with such disabilities, or subjected to such a history of purposeful unequal treatment, or relegated to such a position of political powerlessness as to command extraordinary protection from the majoritarian political process” are entitled to the strictest constitutional protections against discrimination. LGBT Americans are obviously such a group. Yet the Supreme Court has declined to extend this heightened constitutional scrutiny to anti-gay laws when given the opportunity to do so.

At the same time, the Court has also applied something more rigorous than very cursory constitutional scrutiny it applies to most laws when examining many anti-gay laws. Thus, the justices struck down an anti-gay Colorado constitutional amendment — holding that the amendment’s “sheer breadth is so discontinuous with the reasons offered for it that the amendment seems inexplicable by anything but animus toward the class that it affects.”

Boudin reconciles these two lines of precedent by noting that the Supreme Court may not accord the most rigorous scrutiny to all discriminatory laws, but it has still struck down laws “in which courts have had reasons to be concerned about possible discrimination.” Citing decisions striking down discrimination against “women, the poor and the mentally impaired,” Boudin notes that “gays and lesbians have long be the subject of discrimination,” and that is reason to treat DOMA with skepticism.

If Boudin had stopped there, or maybe a few paragraphs later where he explains that DOMA strips same-sex spouses of “meaningful economic benefits” similar to the benefits denied in other laws that were struck down, he would have provided an excellent argument for why marriage discrimination cannot be squared with our Constitution and declared that marriage equality must be the law of the land.

Judge Boudin, however, is clearly worried about what I have at times labeled the “Alabama Problem” — meaning that a Supreme Court decision recognizing the Constitution’s full promise of equality must necessarily extend to states with a legacy of massive resistance to the Court’s civil rights decisions. The justices may not yet be ready to take such a politically controversial plunge. Significantly, Michael Boudin does not appear ready to take that plunge either, and so he inserts a bizarre states rights argument into an otherwise excellent opinion:

[T]he denial of federal benefits to same-sex couples lawfully married does burden the choice of states like Massachusetts to regulate the rules and incidents of marriage; notably, the Commonwealth stands both to assume new administrative burdens and to lose funding for Medicaid or veterans’ cemeteries solely on account of its same-sex marriage laws. These consequences do not violate the Tenth Amendment or Spending Clause, but Congress’ effort to put a thumb on the scales and influence a state’s decision as to how to shape its own marriage laws does bear on how the justifications are assessed.

The upshot of this paragraph is that it allows Boudin to conclude that states like Alabama can continue to exclude gay couples from the Constitution’s promise of equality, while still extending that promise to couples in Massachusetts. But it is bad constitutional law that bears a disturbing resemblance to arguments the Affordable Care Act’s opponents have used to attack Medicaid. America should not have to choose between the blessings of equality and the certainty that our national leaders can adequately address national problems such as the deficiencies in our health care system.

Ultimately, however, Boudin’s opinion is a cause for optimism. The last federal appeals judge to strike a blow for marriage equality, Judge Stephen Reinhardt, is a well-known liberal crusader with little influence over the conservative justices. Boudin, by contrast, is a Republican appointee who’s clearly still uncomfortable with Constitution’s promise of equality throughout America. And yet he just published an opinion striking down the Defense of Marriage Act. This bodes well for gay couples when DOMA comes before the Supreme Court.

NEWS FLASH

Meet The Families Fighting For Marriage Equality In Illinois | This week, Lambda Legal and the ACLU announced they were filing suits on behalf of 25 couples arguing that same-sex marriage should be legal under the state constitution of Illinois. The challenge will in many ways parallel the case that led to the neighboring Iowa Supreme Court to rule in favor of marriage equality in 2009. The suits present an important opportunity to highlight same-sex families in Illinois, and Lambda Legal has done just that. After watching this introductory video about the challenge, stop by the page to see profiles of 16 of the couples and their children:

Kansas Pastor: Killing Gay People Is Just Scripture

Kansas pastor Curtis Knapp is one of many far-right religious leaders under fire this week for preaching violent anti-gay rhetoric, telling his congregation at New Hope Baptist Church that homophobia is good because it keeps gay people in the closet, adding, “Oh, so you’re saying we should go out and start killing them? No, I’m saying the government should. They won’t, but they should.” He defended his remarks yesterday on CNN:

KNAPP: We punish pedophilia. We punish incest. We punish polygamy and various things. It’s only homosexuality that is lifted out as an exemption. In Leviticus 20:13, “If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act. They shall surely be put to death.” [...]

I don’t think homosexuals have anything to worry about. I don’t think the government’s going to do that. They don’t have anything to worry about from me. I don’t believe I should lay a finger against them. My hope is for their salvation, not for their death.

Watch it:

It’s good to know that gay people have “nothing to worry about” from a conservative pastor who openly advocates for their genocide.

NEWS FLASH

BREAKING: Two Republican Judges Declare DOMA Unconstitutional | A three judge panel of The United States Court of Appeals for the First Circuit just handed down a decision declaring the anti-gay Defense of Marriage Act unconstitutional. Notably, the panel included Judges Juan Torruella and Michael Boudin, both of whom are Republican appointees. Judge Boudin, who authored the opinion, is one of the most highly regarded judges in the country; he frequently sends his former law clerks to clerk for Supreme Court justices. More analysis of his opinion will follow shortly.

Update

More analysis here: Why Judge Boudin Is Just Like 50 Cent

NEWS FLASH

POLL: 54 Percent Of Washington Voters Would Uphold Marriage Equality | A new poll shows that 54 percent of Washington state voters would uphold the newly passed marriage equality law, including 52 percent of Independents. Opponents plan to submit sufficient signatures to challenge the law with Referendum 74, meaning the law’s effect will be delayed from next week until after the November election. In 2009, Washington voters approved Referendum 71, which legalized “everything but marriage” domestic partnerships for same-sex couples.

Church Defends Teaching Kid Homophobic Song As Pastor Flees Apparent Death Threats

Indiana’s Apostolic Truth Tabernacle Church has made national news since a video surfaced this week of Pastor Jeff Sangl and his congregation encouraging a four-year-old singing a song called, “Ain’t no homos gonna make it to heaven.” The church is in apparent damage control, but sending a variety of mixed messages. The following statement appeared on the church’s website:

The Pastor and members of Apostolic Truth Tabernacle do not condone, teach, or practice hate of any person for any reason. We believe and hope that every person can find true Bible salvation and the mercy and grace of God in their lives. We are a strong advocate of the family unit according to the teachings and precepts found in the Holy Bible. We believe the Holy Bible is the Divinely-inspired Word of God and we will continue to uphold and preach that which is found in scripture.

Of course, this statement doesn’t exactly distance itself from the message of the song, which church members have defended. One congregant stood behind the video, saying, “The people who are upset just don’t read the word of God. If we don’t teach the children the truth early they will never learn… Of course we applauded a child who is singing a song about God.”

Meanwhile, Pastor Sangl has received death threats, leading him to abruptly leave for vacation with his wife without telling anyone where they were going. Church members are taking turns keeping vigil over their church to provide extra security as a result of harassing phone calls.

Dan Savage noted yesterday that Apostolic Truth Tabernacle is in Greensburg, IN, which is where Billy Lucas lived. Billy committed suicide in 2010 after being bullied for being gay, and his death was one in a spate of similar suicides that led Savage to create the It Gets Better project. If four-year-olds in Greensburg are still being taught to celebrate the idea that all gay people deserve to go to hell, it’s not getting better there yet.

Update

Fox News — of all places — has reported that according to Decatur County Sheriff Gregory Allen, reports that Pastor Sangl has received death threats are not true. Sangl had contacted the department asking them to “keep an eye” on the church’s property, but made no mention of any death threats.

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The Morning Pride: May 31, 2012

Welcome to The Morning Pride, ThinkProgress LGBT’s daily round-up of the latest in LGBT policy, politics, and some culture too! Here’s what we’re reading this morning, but please let us know what stories you’re following as well. Follow us all day on Twitter at @TPEquality.

- Why do media outlets like the AP invite “dima-a-dozen bigots” to comment on LGBT stories they have nothing to do with?

- California’s Missiongathering Christian Church has posted a billboard apologizing to North Carolinians for the passage of Amendment One.

- Police have been unresponsive to an Arizona gay couple with four children whose home been terrorized with anti-gay vandalism.

- A trans teen narrowly missed out on reaching the finals of the Miss England pageant.

- Openly gay British MP Nick Herbert doesn’t understand when equality was dropped as a priority of the government.

- Conservatives like NOM and AFA are outraged that a British therapist has been stripped of her credentials after offering ex-gay therapy.

- A group of straight Mormons known as “Mormons Building Bridges” will march in Salt Lake City’s Gay Pride parade this weekend to “reach out with love and understanding to the LGBT community.”

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