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A Month’s Worth Of Anti-Gay Preaching In One Video | As perhaps a backlash of North Carolina’s passage of Amendment One and President Obama’s support for marriage equality, May proved to be rife with anti-gay rhetoric in far-right churches across the country. Here is the month’s worth of anti-gay rhetoric compiled into one video:

Father Incorrectly Believes A Gay-Straight Alliance Would Have Made His Son A Bigger Target For Bullying

Allan and Jamie Hubley

When Ottawa teen Jamie Hubley committed suicide last October, Canada was rocked with the issue of anti-gay bullying. The fallout led to Bill 13, the Accepting Schools Act, which would require all taxpayer-funded schools to institute staff trainings, bullying reporting structures, and a guarantee that students can form gay-straight alliances or similar diversity-oriented clubs. Religious conservatives are attacking the bill fiercely because it would impact Canada’s Catholic schools as well, which they see as a violation of religious freedom.

But now those conservatives believe they have found an advocate in Jamie’s father, Allan Hubley. Hubley testified for changes to Bill 13, arguing that Jamie would have been an even bigger target for bullying if he had formed a GSA:

HUBLEY: By suggesting each club must be specifically named, such as any name, we are dealing with the issue of bullying in a way that is sure to fail. Jamie was the only openly gay person in his school of over 1,000 students. Jamie had the love and support of his family and friends and still found this to be a challenge. A GSA with one member or even a few would only have made him more of a target. I have to ask you: How many people publicly announce their sexuality before they are out of school and established in their lives? Why, then, would we be considering forcing them to do so at an age when they already have so many pressures to manage?[...]

Many of the kids I mentioned there, for example, people with freckles, with different colour hair, things like that, they’re not protected under the human rights charter. They’re not, as the previous presenter said, one of the minorities. From what I read of studies of bullies, they look for what makes you separate from others. They look for something that—you’re different. It could be the clothes you wear; it could be anything.

Hubley’s rhetoric is both troubling and faulty. His testimony suggests that he discouraged Jamie from being open about his identity, as he is doing the same of other young people. It seems he does not even understand the basic point of a gay-straight alliance, nor is he aware of studies demonstrating what an impact they have on school environments.

Hubley’s first concern about “forcing” young people to publicly announce their sexuality doesn’t reflect the reality that they often choose to make that decision for themselves. Research has shown that coming out helps people who are gay feel happier — provided the costs of stigma do not cancel out the benefits. Participation in a GSA should never require forced identification in any way, as it is by definition a gay-straight alliance open to all students who believe in equality and acceptance. It’s a space to feel safe and welcome, not a spotlight on identities.

GSAs also help mitigate students’ depression and even improve their performance later on in college. The mere perception that a GSA promoted school safety helped lower rates of depression and problems with substance abuse. Making school curricula LGBT-inclusive similarly helped make schools safer and more accepting.

Conservatives may take advantage of the fact that Hubley’s impression of what impacted his son’s decision to commit suicide, but that doesn’t change the reality of what actually improves school climates for LGBT students.

North Carolina GOP Platform Says Government Should Be Able To Discriminate Against Gays

Emboldened by a recently enacted constitutional amendment prohibiting civil unions and same-sex marriage, North Carolina’s Republican party adopted a platform yesterday that condones discrimination on the basis of “sexual orientation.” The platform’s Article Ill: Individual Liberty states:

Government should treat all citizens impartially, without regard to wealth, race, ethnicity, disability, religion, sex, political affiliation or national origin. We oppose all forms of invidious discrimination. Sexual orientation is not an appropriate category.

The document also argues that “The ideal environment for raising children is a two-parent family with a mother and father who are married and committed to that life-long relationship” and opposes “adoption by same sex couples.”

Currently, the state does not have a ban on discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity. (HT: Progressive Pulse)

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Study: TV Hurts the Self-Esteem of Girls and Children of Color, But Bolsters Boys

The usual caveats apply, but I was interested to read through this study out of Indiana University which tracked children’s television viewing habits over a year and found that both white and African-American girls and African-American boys’ saw their self esteem take a television-related hit, while white boys felt better about themselves.

The study’s based on a couple of central ideas, all of which I found to be useful clarifications of ideas I use to explain the impact of media on people of all ages. First, there’s a homogenizing effect of television, which establishes common expectations for which jobs, bodies, and standards of living: “common features of the television landscape pervade all forms of program- ming. Cultivation theory offers an explanation for how white collar jobs, the thin ideal, power, and wealth may come to be perceived as commonplace and easily achievable.” In other words, the fact that television characters have what seem like the same three or four occupations creates a kind of closure. There’s a tricky balance to be achieved here: “research demonstrates that upward comparisons can actually be beneficial to people when they are led to believe that attainment of the depicted achievements is possible.” But if it’s actually harder than portrayed to achieve any of the conditions portrayed on television in real life, that could produce poor self-esteem if someone thinks the failure is theirs, not the media’s. And boys, more than girls, are the beneficiaries of positive messages about what to aspire to. Finally, “Milkie (1999) argues that viewers struggle to avoid self-evaluations with media messages because the mass media alter societal ideas about what is normative. If children believe that others (e.g., peers, family) use such mes- sages to evaluate them, White girls and Black children cannot simply ignore mass media messages as a comparative referent.”
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Hawaii GLBT Democrats Condemn Former Governor’s ‘Unwarranted Cruelty’

The Hawaii Democrats’ GLBT Caucus has made a slightly unusual endorsement in the U.S. Senate race. Rather than endorse one candidate, they have endorsed both Ed Case and Mazie Hirono, one of whom will beat the other in the August primary election. Caucus Chair Jo-Ann Adams explained that on LGBT issues, either would be ideal to defeat former Republican Linda Lingle for the seat because of her “unwarranted cruelty” to the LGBT community:

ADAMS: There are significant differences between the candidates, and members of other Caucuses have urged the Caucus to support only one candidate, because of these differences that are the purview of other caucuses. However, on our issues they both have been consistently supportive for several decades.

Linda Lingle at her best did nothing for the LGBT community. At her worst, she invited members of the LGBT Community to have assigned front-row seats at the press conference when she announced her veto of the civil unions bill. Her unwarranted cruelty will not soon be forgotten.

As of January 1, 2012, civil unions are now the law in Hawaii, but not thanks to Lingle. Her 2009 veto led the ACLU and Lambda Legal to sue the state for equal treatment for same-sex couples. They withdrew the case last year after Lingle’s successor, Gov. Neil Abercrombie (D), signed civil unions into law.

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Neil Patrick Harris And David Burtka: The Oprah Interview | Last night, Oprah’s Next Chapter aired a special in-depth interview and visit with Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka, who are raising two kids, Harper and Gideon. They address the typical challenges of parenting, who is more maternal (David), and how they’ll talk to their kids about having two dads. In one clip, Oprah had a an “aha! moment” as she realized just how many hurdles have to be jumped for a same-sex couple to adopt children and what that shows about their love and commitment to raising a family:

Towelroad has a compilation of other clips from the episode.

Illinois Reaches 5,000 Inferior Civil Unions As Attorney General Stands For Marriage Equality

Illinois State Attorney General Lisa Madigan

There is a lot of exciting news to report out of Illinois for same-sex couples. Attorney General Lisa Madigan (D) has announced she will be working to support lawsuits from Lambda Legal and the ACLU arguing for marriage equality under the state’s constitution. The suits name Cook County Clerk of Courts David Orr as the defendant, but he supports same-sex marriage as well. With Democratic majorities in both chambers of the legislature, it remains unclear if any party will actually argue against the suits in court. Conservative groups will surely try, but unlike with California’s Proposition 8, there isn’t a ballot initiative to defend, so it seems unlikely any outside groups would actually have standing to intervene on behalf of discrimination.

New research shows that Illinois needs marriage equality. In the year since the state legalized civil unions, 5,000 couples have taken advantage of them, but unfortunately, those unions have not been treated equally. Here are some of the many situations in which same-sex couples have experienced unfair treatment:

  • Filing for taxes.
  • Obtaining health insurance.
  • Buying a house.
  • Getting a civil union in all counties.
  • Applying for a birth certificate in both parents’ names.
  • Picking up or dropping off a prescription for a sick civil union partner at a pharmacy.

Clearly, civil unions aren’t working in Illinois, just as they’ve been proven not to in New Jersey. It seems, though, that there won’t be anybody to stand up and argue otherwise in court, which means marriage equality could be a shoe-in for Illinois in the near future.

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North Carolina Activist Plans 80-Mile Walk To Protest Amendment One | This weekend, Randy Gillis will leave his home in Sophia, North Carolina to walk about 80 miles to the Raleigh State House. He intends to deliver a handwritten letter to state Sen. Peter S. Brunstetter (R) protesting the discriminatory effects of Amendment One, which banned same-sex marriage, civil unions, and domestic partnerships. Brunstetter was one of the measure’s key architects, and his wife experienced a media backlash when she claimed he was trying to protect the “Caucasian” race. On his journey, Gillis is hoping to meet with other North Carolinians, collect their stories, and serve as their letter-carrier as well. Watch this short promotional video for Gillis’ action:

Obama’s Pride Proclamation Includes Marriage Equality Support For First Time

On Friday, President Obama issued his annual proclamation recognizing June as LGBT Pride Month, but for the first time, his message included support for marriage equality among other accomplishments of his office. In an accompanying video, Obama spoke of celebrating unsung heroes who stand up for LGBT rights as part of their daily lives:

OBAMA: I’ve often said that the true genius of America is that America can change. We can pass laws to right wrongs. We can soften hardened attitudes. Our union can be made more perfect. But here’s the thing: change never happens on its own. Change happens because ordinary people, countless unsung heroes of our American story, stand up and demand it.

The story of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Americans is no different. As we celebrate LGBT Pride Month, we remember the activists and advocates who refused to be treated like second-class citizens — people like Jeanne Manford and Harvey Milk, who marched and protested and believed in a better future.

But we also remember the unsung heroes, the millions of LGBT Americans for whom everyday acts required extraordinary courage — the young people who came out as gay or transgender to their parents not knowing what to expect, the two moms or two dads who went to an open house or PTA meeting not knowing how they’d be received, the couple that got married even if their bosses or neighbors wouldn’t approve, at least not right away. Most of these heroes didn’t set out to make history, but that’s exactly what they did.

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The Morning Pride: June 4, 2012

Welcome to The Morning Pride, ThinkProgress LGBT’s daily round-up of the latest in LGBT policy, politics, and some culture too! Here’s what we’re reading this morning, but please let us know what stories you’re following as well. Follow us all day on Twitter at @TPEquality.

- The New Mexico Supreme Court ruled that a former same-sex partner had parental rights to a child they raised together.

- Colorado civil unions supporters held an “uncivil soiree” to regroup and prepare for 2013.

- The Minnesota State Democratic Convention opened with a call to oppose the marriage inequality amendment.

- The Conservative branch of American Judaism has officially endorsed allowing rabbis to perform same-sex marriage ceremonies.

- Over 300 straight Mormons marched in the Utah Gay Pride Parade this weekend.

- Poland and Latvia hosted gay pride marches this weekend as well.

- Levels of homophobic bullying are very high in Scottish sports.

- The Facebook page for the conservative group One Million Moms has disappeared shortly after being overwhelmed with positive comments about the new Green Lantern being gay.

- Meanwhile, Target is officially blocking One Million Moms’ emails, and Macy’s has issued its own celebration of Pride Month.

- More than 150,000 attended “Gay Days” at Walt Disney World this weekend.

- Nike will be hosting a milestone LGBT sports summit.

- Jason Alexander wrote a thought-provoking apology for some gay-insensitive comments he made last week on The Late Late Show.

- More research supports the validity that there is such a thing as “gaydar” in human perception.

- Queen Latifah definitely did not come out at Long Beach Pride.

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