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A Tipping Point On Sexism And Video Games

It’s been a draining week, but I was heartened to see three items come over the wires today. First, James Fudge at GamePolitics, calls out the campaign against Anita Sarkeesian:

Admittedly we missed this story last week, but it’s important to highlight the ridiculous antics of some Neanderthals in the community that are so bent out of shape over a video series that they want to create a digital effigy of someone to abuse. The last time I checked, Canada and the United States were situated in a part of the world where women are equal to men and ideas can be explored without engaging in violence. The part of the gaming community that loathes Anita Sarkeesian needs to call off the Internet holy war it has declared on her for exploring ideas they seem to think are tantamount to blasphemy.

At Forbes, Erik Kain writes about overcoming how flabbergasted he’s been by some of the sexism he’s seen to speak out, and explain why sexism hurts male gamers as well as female ones:

Maybe it’s not my business to comment on what to do about it – girl gamers don’t need White Knights, after all – but I do think men can be useful, and probably necessary, allies. Men and women talking about sexism in gaming culture is an important way to make matters better for everyone involved. I’m including men in this statement because ending sexism in gaming culture is good for men, too. As with any other social setting, things get dreary quickly when it’s all boys. Life is more fun because there are two sexes, and treating people decently opens doors and reduces barriers to entry for everyone. More girl gamers means better, more varied games, and better online social interaction. Not objectifying and vilifying women means you have more actual human beings with whom you can interact, vastly enriching your social experience – and theirs.

And Sam Killermann, founder of Gamers Against Bigotry, an initiative that lets gamers pledge to avoid using slurs in trash talk, tells the Mary Sue about the attitudes he’s changed since he started the campaign:

About a dozen of the pledgees have contacted me saying things like “I never realized doing this actually hurt people,” or “I just thought it was part of the culture, so I played along” and ended their messages with “but I’m going to try to stop now.” And those are just the gamers in those situations who have gone out of their way to get in touch with me. We can safely assume more signed with those sentiments and didn’t let me know (see what I did there?).

I don’t know that sexism in gaming will disappear tomorrow, or within a year—there are powerful economic incentives for it. But over the last couple of months, it’s seemed like we’ve reached an action point, where men who were previously silent or neutral are no longer content to be so, and are working to marginalize the trolls amongst them. The moment when eradicating sexism becomes not a special interest but a shared interest is a powerful one.

NEWS FLASH

Self-Proclaimed Black Pastor Spokesman Compares Homosexuality To Bestiality | Reverend Bill Owens is the founder of the unrepresentative Coalition of African-American Pastors, a group that exists solely to attack black leaders and organizations that support marriage equality. The National Organization for Marriage eagerly promotes the fledgling group as part of their effort to drive a wedge between gays and blacks. Yesterday, in Houston, Owens held a press conference outside the NAACP, protesting it for endorsing the freedom to marry in a recent resolution. As RightWingWatch’s Josh Glasstetter points out, Owens’ views on homosexuality are deplorable, believing that it is caused and spread by molestation and is comparable to bestiality. Take a listen:

Thomson Reuters Comes Out Against Minnesota Marriage Inequality Amendment

Thomson Reuters, a company that provides business data, is the latest company to come out against Minnesota’s proposed marriage inequality amendment. The company emailed the following statement to its employees today:

As we’ve heard from employees, recruiters and customers, one thing has been very clear: we’re a better place when we have a rich variety of perspectives, talents, backgrounds, lifestyles and experiences in our workplace, and within the broader community from which we recruit. We believe that building a culture that thrives on diversity and inclusion and provides equal opportunities to everyone is a critical factor in our ability to serve our customers and be successful. …We believe the Minnesota Marriage Amendment, if passed, would limit our ability to recruit and retain top talent. For this reason, we do not believe that the Amendment would be good for Thomson Reuters or the business community in the state.

Thomson Reuters is the third Fortune 500 company to oppose the discriminatory measure, joining General Mills and St. Jude Medical.

NEWS FLASH

Louisiana Congressman Attacks University’s LGBT Studies Program | Rep. Jeff Landry (R-LA) is a “proud” alumnus of the University of Louisiana, Lafayette, but he doesn’t want any students there to learn about thing about pride. This week, he lashed out at his alma mater for offering an LGBT Studies minor, claiming “it fails to provide an economic benefit to the participants or financial sense for the taxpayer.” Not only did the minor not require any budgetary allocations, but it’s just one of many diversity-related minors UL Lafayette offers, including African-American studies, Cajun and Creole studies, Latin American studies, etc. Even if a trivial amount of resources were required to sustain the minor, Landry’s still wrong; teaching LGBT studies makes good taxpayer sense, because inclusive work environments are good for business and productivity, plus LGBT students on campus perform better when acknowledged as members of the campus community.

Hockey Player Apologizes For Using Anti-Gay Language In Radio Interview

New Jersey Devil Cam Janssen released a statement today apologizing for the anti-gay language he used on a St. Louis-based internet radio show. When the show’s host asked the hockey forward a homophobic leading question regarding trash-talk, Janssen played along:

JANSSEN: You wanna get in people’s heads to get them off their fucking game and don’t get me wrong, you don’t wanna go too deep with shit because we all have our issues here. Let’s be honest.

HOST: But if the guy was sucking cock 4 weeks ago, you’re gonna let him know about it?

JANSSEN: Oh, if he’s sucking cock, he’s getting his ass kicked. [laughter]

Janssen released the apology on the Devils’ website:

I would like to apologize for my poor choice of language. The tone of the interview was very casual and off-color, and I lost focus on what is and is not acceptable and professional. I am deeply sorry to anyone who was offended by my language. Moving forward, I hope to eliminate that type of language from my vocabulary. I would also like to take this chance to express my support for the work the You Can Play project is doing, and for the gay community in general.

Patrick Burke of You Can Play — the NHL’s project to eliminate homophobia — accepted Janssen’s apology. “People unwilling to give Cam a chance to learn from his mistakes are doing no more to support You Can Play than he did in his interview,” Burke tweeted.

And Janssen’s comments should not distract from the amazing work the NHL is doing with the groundbreaking You Can Play Project. With a simple “if you can play, you can play” refrain, the NHL has been the first major American sport to strongly combat longstanding homophobia in American locker rooms. The campaign works by showing hockey stars framing the inclusion of LGBT players and fans with familiar sports aphorisms: unity, teamwork, and respect. Watch it:

 

 

Steven Perlberg

Jitters & Bliss Coffee Abandons Failed Partnership With Anti-Gay NOM

Christian-affiliated Jitters & Bliss coffee recently attempted to profit off of  a partnership with the National Organization for Marriage because of the group’s boycott of Starbucks over its support of marriage equality. J&B would offer a special discount to its customers if they used the code word “marriage” and make donations to NOM in exchange for “free” press. J&B’s Facebook page was overwhelmed with negative comments about the partnership as well as countering pro-equality comments, all of which were deleted and the users blocked from the page. Ultimately, the page was removed from public view entirely for several days.

Jitters & Bliss has restored their page, and in comments on the page made clear that its relationship with NOM is officially over after just one week:

USER: is the hate group NOM still associated with this company?

J&B: No!

USER: So it’s not true that if I enter the promotional code “marriage,” you’ll give money to them? Like they say right here? http://www.nomblog.com/24761/

J&B: That is correct! Our customers will receive the discount until the end of July, but no money goes to NOM after July 9th. Our true intention is to sell great coffee. Period! Jitters & Bliss remains neutral, respectiving everyone. However, we are a Christian based company who will adhere to Christian business principles. We love everyone. [...]

USER: is there a pro equality code I can use to order coffee from you?

J&B: we are no longer connected to NOM. I do not care for SBucks for many reasons. I took an opportunity to get some of their business. Being inclusive, and loving everyone, yes, I would make another code. Will you use it?

It’s unclear how the company’s claim of being “inclusive” and “loving everyone” jibes with the “Christian business principles” that prompted the company to partner with NOM in the first place. Still, the failed PR plan shows just how toxic NOM’s anti-gay views are and how dismally unsuccessful their boycott strategy is playing out.

Update

(July 16, 2012 – 9:10 AM) It seems Jitters & Bliss has again deleted the comments cited here. Fortunately, ThinkProgress preserved a screenshot of them as they appeared on Friday (see below). The company’s founder, Keith Bliss, instead offered this new comment on Sunday, adding the new claim that his family was “viciously attacked and threatened”:

Jitters & Bliss Coffee respects ALL customers. As the owner of Jitters and Bliss Coffee, I made a decision to offer our coffee as a premium product choice on the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) website. During this time my family was viciously attacked and threatened. After a short term promotion with NOM, we are moving forward. As a business based on Christian values, we will continue to provide a quality coffee experience to our customers. We thank everyone who has and continues to support Jitters & Bliss Coffee!

The company has not yet clarified how much money it ultimately donated to NOM during its one-week partnership.

Maine GOP Senate Candidate Opposes Anti-Discrimination Protections

Charles Summers.

Since 2005, the Maine Human Rights Act has legally protected LGBT Mainers from workplace discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or gender expression. This law is so popular in the state that a ballot initiative to repeal them in 2010 failed to receive enough signatures to even merit a vote. But Maine Secretary of State Charlie Summers, the Republican candidate for Senate, appeared to oppose the Maine Human Rights Act in remarks cited by local columnist Chris Busby:

Maria Holt, a former state legislator from Bath who served with Summers in Augusta when the anti-discrimination measure was being debated, was on the phone. “But, my dear old friend, if your private life keeps you from getting a rental …”

Summers cut her off. “Well, I certainly know what you’re talking about,” he said. (He does?) He then listed several business groups — including the Maine Chamber of Commerce, the Maine Innkeepers Association and the Maine Restaurant Association — that “do not support that type of discrimination.”

I think that that is their choice and they’re doing it on their own volition,” Summers told Holt. “That is really the difference in the approach between you and I.”

Summers’ campaign failed to respond to repeated requests for clarification from ThinkProgress. This may be because Summers’ position is not only unpopular even among Republicans, but also indefensible: discrimination against LGBT workers is widespread, devastating for its victims, and bad for business. Summers’ position – that employers should simply choose not to discriminate – flies in the face of the fact that they, quite simply, do. “Voluntary” non-discrimination is really no protection against discrimination at all, a fact that Mainers have recognized for quite some time.

The extreme position embraced by the Summers campaign may be a Hail Mary pass for outside support. Summers trails independent Angus King by about 28 points, but has declared his intention to narrow the gap through a punishingly negative campaign. The only outside PAC support Summers has received so far has been from Senator John Cornyn’s leadership PAC, who has a track record of playing politics with LGBT rights.

Maine will also be holding the first-ever referendum to legalize marriage equality in the fall, which has solid support from the state’s voters. Summers, however, has used his role of Secretary of State to confuse the ballot initiative. Summers’ position is consistent with the extreme views of the governor, Governor Paul LePage, who wants to “reform” the Maine Human Rights Act and once said “there is no place for transgendered students in the state’s primary schools.”

Maggie Gallagher’s Institute Attacks APA Support Of Marriage Equality With Vague Generalizations

Way back in August of 2011, the American Psychological Association unanimously approved a resolution in favor of marriage equality. Now, eleven months later, Maggie Gallagher’s Institute for Marriage and Public Policy (IMAPP) has released a critique, challenging all of the claims made in the resolution about gay people, their relationships, and their ability to parent. Rather than offer any compelling evidence that runs contrary to the APA resolution, IMAPP took eleven months to essentially argue that it’s merely not convinced by the evidence cited. Here are a few of the claims IMAPP simply refuses to accept:

  • People who are gay are normal and healthy and can have satisfying relationships and raise well-adjusted children.
  • Campaigns to deny same-sex couples rights cause them stress and negatively impact their psychological well-being.
  • Same-sex couples are similar to opposite-sex couples.
  • Equality improves same-sex couples’ psychological well-being.

There are two obvious flaws that make IMAPP’s critique irrelevant. First of all, IMAPP abandoned any sense of objectivity by only looking for opportunities to challenge the APA’s claims. There is plenty of additional supporting research not cited in APA’s resolution that IMAPP simply treated as non-existent, instead focusing only on weaknesses it could find in the few citations APA did provide. For example, the APA only cited three reference for its claim that anti-equality campaigns stigmatize gays and lesbians, the most recent of which was from 2006. But there is well over a decade of studies that reinforce this claim, such as the vast amount of research on this very question conducted by Dr. Glenda Russell.

Secondly, IMAPP abused what is actually good scientific rigor in the cited studies. When scientists conduct research, they take responsibility for identifying the limitations of each study, pointing out to what extent the conclusions can be fairly generalized and suggesting future areas of study. IMAPP pounced on these limitations in an attempt to demonstrate that the studies’ conclusions were somehow faulty or inapplicable, a tactic that abridges the integrity of what each study actually found. It actually raises the question of whether there is any collection of studies that could ever convince IMAPP to support marriage equality, and the answer is probably no, because IMAPP was founded upon the very bias of opposing equality. Thus, this oddly delayed and whiny rebuke should be seen only in the shallow intellectual format in which it was presented.

Just to drive home how disconnected from reality IMAPP’s positions are, consider this excerpt from its critique:

Overall the APA cites virtually no research suggesting that gay marriage provides any additional long-term benefits for gay couples in terms of their relationships, or social stigma. Nor does the APA take cognizance of the gay people who have opposed same-sex marriage, or in fact prefer civil unions. We do not know how many gay people take these views, but they appear with enough frequency in academic and popular press that a broad-brush assessment that gay people find the absence of gay marriage or the presence of civil unions uniformly stigmatizing appears hard to justify.

This, from one of many conservative groups committed to “strengthening marriage,” advocating for covenant marriage, and reducing the divorce rate. According to Gallagher and IMAPP, opposite-sex couples can benefit incredibly from having long-lasting committed marriage, but same-sex couples wouldn’t benefit at all. Clearly, IMAPP has nothing substantive to offer except a narrow-minded bias against the very lives of LGBT people.

The Morning Pride: July 13, 2012

Welcome to The Morning Pride, ThinkProgress LGBT’s daily round-up of the latest in LGBT policy, politics, and some culture too! Here’s what we’re reading this morning, but please let us know what stories you’re following as well. Follow us all day on Twitter at @TPEquality.

- The Baltimore Sun has endorsed marriage equality.

- Washington, DC has sworn in the first two trans members of its Human Rights Commission.

- The Dallas, Texas couple that protested being denied a marriage license is facing harsher punishments for their sit-in than other activists have.

- The Omaha Catholic Archdiocese has blocked a same-sex wedding announcement from being posted in in Catholic high school newsletter.

- Chile has approved hate crime legislation.

- Though funding originally fell through there will be a Pride House at the London Olympic Games.

- British activist Peter Tatchell is calling on the Olympic Committee to ban all countries that discriminates against women, ethnic, religious, or LGBT minorities.

- Breaking Bad‘s Bryan Cranston and his family are HRC’s latest Americans for Marriage Equality.

- Today’s editorial cartoon in the Dallas Voice mocks Exodus International for admitting ex-gay therapy cannot change sexual orientation:

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