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Huckabee: LGBT Reaction To Chick-fil-A Is ‘Economic Bullying’ | ThinkProgress has thoroughly covered the incendiary religious condemnations of same-sex families made by Chick-fil-A President Dan Cathy, as well as the National Organization for Marriage’s complete hypocrisy in terms of how it responds to corporate positions on LGBT rights. That being said, there’s little set-up necessary for this clip of NOM’s Brian Brown speaking today with Mike Huckabee. Both completely ignored the malevolence inherent in Cathy’s remarks, instead defending Chick-fil-A from what Huckabee called “economic bullying.” Take a listen:

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Mitt Gets Worse: Danny O’Donnell And Anthony Rapp | The “Mitt Gets Worse” campaign has released two new videos featuring individuals discussing the negative impacts of Romney’s anti-gay positions. Danny O’Donnell (D) was the first-ever openly gay man ever elected to the New York State Assembly and has been an advocate against bullying. Anthony Rapp, perhaps best known from his portrayal of Mark in Rent the musical, has been a mentor and role model for many LGBT youth. Both Rapp and O’Donnell are concerned about the ways Romney cut services for LGBT youth while governor of Massachusetts, as well as cuts for HIV/AIDS care. Watch their videos:

City Officials Tell Chick-Fil-A They Are Not Welcome In Wake Of Homophobic Comments By Company President

Boston's Democratic Mayor Thomas Menino

Chick-Fil-A’s plans to expand into one of the nation’s largest cities has hit a snag, after Boston Mayor Thomas Menino sent a scathing letter to company president Dan Cathy informing him that so long as the company remained intolerant of the LGBT community, Boston would remain intolerant of Chick-Fil-A.

In a letter dated July 20, Menino writes:

You called supporters of gay marriage “prideful”. Here in Boston, to borrow your own words, we are “guilty as charged.” We are indeed full of pride for our support of same sex marriage and our work to expand freedom to all people. We are proud that our state and our city have led the way for the country on equal marriage rights.

Chick-Fil-A had reportedly been seeking property along the city’s famous Freedom Trail, a tourism hotspot and prime real estate for businesses, for its first Boston location. But Menino has vowed to block any attempt by the company to open a new store. “There is no place for discrimination on Boston’s Freedom Trail and no place for your company alongside it,” he wrote in the letter.

Menino’s letter may have been just the first crack in the dam. Yesterday, Chicago alderman Joe Moreno made a similar pledge to block any attempts by the chain to build its second store in the city, proposed for the highly trafficked Logan Square neighborhood whose zoning is controlled by Moreno.

“If you are discriminating against a segment of the community, I don’t want you in the 1st Ward,” he said on Tuesday in an interview with the Chicago Tribune.

The chain, which has stores nationwide and currently ranks as the nation’s 10th largest fast food company, has found itself at the center of a maelstrom of criticism after Cathy’s remarks.

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Elton John Tells AIDS Conference: ‘I Should Be Dead’ | Today, Elton John spoke at the International AIDS Conference and offered that he “should be dead.” He explained, “I should have contracted HIV in the 1980s and died in the 1990s, just like Freddie Mercury, just like Rock Hudson. Every day I wonder, how did I survive?” He went on to say that everyone deserves compassion, dignity, and love regardless of who they love; “the AIDS disease is caused by a virus… but the AIDS epidemic is fueled by stigma, by hate, by misinformation, by ignorance, by indifference.” Watch his simple but powerful words:

Apparent Hate Crime Nearly Kills Oklahoma City Man

A man in Oklahoma City was nearly killed when his car blew up in front of him last night in what appears to be a hate crime. According to Jon Ferguson, he was woken up in the middle of the night by his car alarm, and when he went outside it was being vandalized by several people. Upon approaching them, the vandals threw something into the car, making it explode. Ferguson was rushed to the hospital with first and second degree burns.

The remains of the car suggest that the attack was a hate crime — the vandals spray-painted the homophobic slur “fag” on the hood. Ferguson, who is openly gay, spoke about how the threat of violence has made him doubt whether coming out was a good idea:

FERGUSON:It’s almost not worth being proud of who you are and trying to show you’re gay because stuff like this really does happen. I’ve always seen it on the news that kids are dying and stuff because they’re being bullied, and you’re 25 years old and something like this happens to you. It’s almost not worth it, and you understand why kids don’t come out of the closet.

The case is currently being investigated as an act of arson, not a hate crime. News 9 reported that the Oklahoma City Fire and Police Department will continue investigations if they think a hate crime was committed.

Nina Liss-Schultz

FRC Strategy Memo: ‘We Must Go On Offense,’ Target Secular Research And Young People

Jeremy Hooper has uncovered a strategy memo detailing the Family Research Council’s future spending plans. Like the infamous “race-wedging” documents that revealed the National Organization for Marriage’s malevloent intentions, this document provides a candid look at how this prominent anti-gay hate group views the culture war and where its focus will be moving forward. What’s particularly notable is FRC’s admission that its agenda is completely religious in nature, but that it intends to force its beliefs upon others. Here are a few highlights:

GO ON OFFENSE: FRC has consistently played great defense. But at this “moment of critical mass” for this and the next generation, we must go on the offense to advance the Christian worldview as America’s only hope. We must double our impact!

GENERATE BIASED RESEARCH: Society listens to academic research, so we must use the language the secular world understands to prove that marriage and worship are foundational to a healthy society and economy. The left has many large institutes manufacturing faulty research to support their anti-family agenda, pro-family conservatives need a social science research powerhouse.

TARGET YOUNG PEOPLE: We have an aggressive plan to engage high school and college students, equip young leaders, and find new ways to communicate truth to the internet generation… we must flood the public debate with fresh, new pro-family activists. FRC must expand our development of materials and video curriculum to equip pastors and laypeople to effectively engage the culture… To expand our reach, we must expand our team that works directly with pastors and their congregations.

FUND ASTROTURF MOVEMENT: Many battles happen on the state and local level where grassroots activsits need FRC’s expertise, and where it is easier to be proactive… we can do unlimited lobbying and more political activity through our affiliated 501(c)(4), FRC Action.

In many ways, this document offers reason to be hopeful. FRC clearly sees that on questions like marriage equality, it is losing on multiple fronts. All legitimate scientific research lends credence to supporting LGBT equality — the left’s “many large institutes” include every major medical organization in the country. The intense amount of pushback on Mark Regnerus’ illegitimate conclusions about the harms of gay parenting provides a great example of conservatives’ failure to justify their religious-based biases with scientific data.

Further, polling continues to show distinct generation gaps among young people on all LGBT issues, so FRC’s concern about targeting young people is telling. The tactic is a bit ironic, given that conservatives regularly attack the LGBT community for trying to “indoctrinate” young people, but that’s exactly what they want to do by finding “new ways to communicate the truth.” The dismal turnout at bus tour events over the past few years reminds just how minimal engaged support conservatives actually have on the ground. But “unlimited lobbying” won’t be enough to disrupt the incredible momentum away from discriminating beliefs.

This is the incredibly well-funded opposition. They intend to attack more, distort research, and spin messaging to impose their narrow religious ideas upon an increasingly inclusive culture. Let them try.

Steven Perlberg contributed to this post.

Alyssa

Father and Child: ‘Ben & Kate,’ ‘Guys With Kids,’ and ‘The New Normal’ Take on Men and Babies

If last year was the he-cession television season, with a series of unsuccessful shows about the struggles of men to stay financially solvent in the downturn, this is the year of the stay-at home father figure. On Fox, Ben & Kate, and on NBC, Guys With Kids and The New Normal are all, with varying degrees of success, exploring what fatherhood means.

The best of the pilots for these shows I’ve seen is that for Ben & Kate, created by Dana Fox, who was an adviser on New Girl, and this year is out on her own. In that show, Ben Fox, who is based closely on Fox’s real-life brother, is a shiftless man who ends up moving home to live with his sister Kate and her daughter. Kate is a single mother, and Ben ends up deciding to take over her daughter’s care, an idea that both frees Kate up to get her life back on track, and spurs Ben on a road to maturity he’s thoroughly avoided. When I asked Fox at her panel how she would avoid falling into the cliche of treating men with small children as if they were inherently hilarious, she said she hoped to create a specific dynamic that would avoid that trap.

“Growing up he got into so much trouble,” Fox said of her brother. “He’s a really, really smart guy who intentionally does incredibly dumb things all the time and would get us into so much trouble…And the thing that I noticed was that he was “the” world’s greatest father, and I sort of thought, like, in a million years, if you had met my brother when he was younger, you would never think that he could have kept two children alive, much less actually kept them happy and well adjusted…I realized that, you know, this character who was so sort of inherently goofy himself and so young at heart himself could talk on the same level to this kid. And when they talk, it’s like two grown ups talking. He doesn’t talk down to her. He really thinks that…they’re kind of best friends.”

That’s a terrific dynamic for a showrunner to articulate, specific and fully realized, and the Ben & Kate pilot really captures the relationship Fox described. If only Guys With Kids and The New Normal, which play out the dudes-with-babies-are-riotous dynamic inflected alternately by heterosexuality and homosexuality, had the same level of insight.

Guys With Kids is neatly encapsulated by what Jimmy Fallon, who created the show, described as his inspiration for it in his session yesterday. “[He and his producing partner] were just talking about all the guys that we were seeing around New York City and Time Square, like with the Baby Bjorns and the babies on the backs of their bikes, and I was saying, like, these are like young good looking guys,” he told the audience. “They’re just embracing the role of dad, and we both said at the same time ‘DILFs.’” That phrase became the working title for the pitch, and while it may be a new (and deeply unnecessary) turn of phrase, the show that’s resulted from it, about a group of young fathers who live in the same New York apartment building, feels like a refugee from 1995. All the humor is predicated on the idea that men wearing baby bjorns, or in fact, spending time with their children during the work day, is such a strange and comical juxtaposition that it will inherently produce laughs. The premise might have worked if the show presented itself as a broader version of NBC’s Up All Night that ditched the extremely wealthy parents of the title and simply taken the fact that men take care of children as a matter of course, exploring the specific relationships they have with their children instead. But the story is a long way from that happier medium.

The New Normal, by contrast, perhaps could only be made in 2012, but that hardly makes it free from cliches, some of which undermine the show’s entire message. In this sitcom, from Glee and American Horror Story creator Ryan Murphy, a gay couple, played by Girls’ Andrew Rannells’ and Justin Bartha, decide they want to have a child together and choose as their surrogate a single mother who hopes to use the money from surrogacy to go back to law school. It’s not a bad premise, but it gets off on an extremely sour note: the couple begins thinking surrogacy because Rannells’ character falls in love with a baby in a department store who is wearing an adorable sweater. It’s a sequence that confirms all the worst stereotypes about gay men as materialistic, selfish, shallow, even seeking instant gratification, and it’s done extremely effectively.

“My partner and I have been having conversations about surrogacy and meeting with people and talking about it,” Murphy said. “We’re really writing hopefully a great depth to this couple, and it’s not hard to be it’s not easy to be a gay couple having a child. We deal with those issues. For me, obviously as somebody who very much does have that dream, I don’t feel that way. I would never feel that way.” That may be his hope, but the gaps between Murphy’s emotions and his execution is clear throughout The New Normal.

I think Ben & Kate stands a chance of being excellent, Guys With Kids could develop into a sold if unmemorable show, and The New Normal may be simply too bounded by Murphy’s private obsessions, including Real Housewife Nene Leakes, to reconcile its ambitions and what it actually offers to the world. But the show demonstrates the challenge of trying to do shows about men taking up their share of childcare. We live in a world where for some people, that’s a new normal, and for others, it’s unfathomable to the point of hilarity.

Sen. Inhofe: Military Uniforms Inappropriate Because Pride Parades Are ‘Political, Partisan’

Sen. James Inhofe (R-OK) has joined Rep. Randy Forbes (R-VA) in condemning the Pentagon for allowing military servicemembers to wear their uniforms in the San Diego Pride Parade last weekend. Like Forbes, Inhofe believes the decision somehow reflects President Obama “forcing its liberal social agenda on the military,” but in his letter to Defense Secretary Leon Panetta, he even argues that the decision is “expressly prohibited by DOD policy”:

Based on the current standing DOD Directive 1344.10 and separate service department regulations, service members “shall not march or ride in a partisan political parade.” These directive and regulations are unambiguous and straight forward with the intent of preserving the military’s apolitical stance. This apolitical stance has served our military well and earned the respect of not just American but nations around the world as being a professional organization, set aside from politics and agendas.

The reversal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” allows U.S. service members to openly serve in our military. However, allowing service members to participate in a gay pride parade, while in uniform, is expressly prohibited by DOD policy… If the Navy can punish a Chaplain for participating in a pro-life event or a Marine participating in a political rally, it stands to reason that DOD should maintain the same standard and preclude service members in uniform from marching in a gay pride parade.

Inhofe clearly (and unsurprisingly) does not even possess the most basic understanding of LGBT Pride. There is nothing inherently partisan or political about a Pride parade — it is a celebration of life and community. Wearing a military uniform in a Pride parade is no more political than wearing one to a heterosexual wedding. That the senator’s only understanding of sexuality and gender is as political issues, rather than as aspects of constituents’ lives and families, is sad.

Though it’s a moot point, if  Inhofe believes that LGBT issues are “partisan,” it is certainly not a reflection of the political make-up of the LGBT community. It is the Republican Party itself, through anti-LGBT party platforms and near-uniform opposition to equality, that has drawn such bold dividing lines in the political debate. This, of course, is in spite of the best efforts by groups like the Log Cabin Republicans and outlier equality-supporters like Rep. Ileana Ros-Lehtinen (R).

If Inhofe’s argument isn’t weak enough, the duplicitous example he uses to defend it further deligitimizes it. The Navy has never punished a chaplain for any pro-life activities — the only case Inhofe could be referring to is that of Gordon James Klingenschmitt, who was dismissed for praying “in Jesus’ name.” His participation in an anti-choice event was irrelevant. For what it’s worth, Klingenschmitt is himself a rabid homophobe who has argued that gay demons can infect animals and anti-bullying laws will invite sexual assault into schools.

Claims like those made by Inhofe and Forbes are an obvious attempt to maintain the stigma and invisibility of gay, lesbian, and bisexual servicemembers in the absence of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.

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Scottish Government Will Introduce Gay Marriage | After a government consultation which produced a record 77,508 responses, ministers in the Scottish government confirmed they would bring forward a bill in Parliament on same-sex marriage, making Scotland the first part of the UK to move towards marriage equality. According to Scotland’s deputy first minister Nicola Sturgeon, the government is “committed to a Scotland that is fair and equal.” Scotland’s landmark announcement comes at a time when many felt the government was stalling on its promise to introduce legislation. Although 64 percent of Scots support same-sex nuptials, the Roman Catholic Church in Scotland recently spent another £100,000 ($154,000) on an unsuccessful “war on gay marriage” ad campaign. If the marriage bill makes it through Parliament, the earliest ceremonies would take place in the start of 2015.

Steven Perlberg

The Morning Pride: July 25, 2012

Welcome to The Morning Pride, ThinkProgress LGBT’s daily round-up of the latest in LGBT policy, politics, and some culture too! Here’s what we’re reading this morning, but please let us know what stories you’re following as well. Follow us all day on Twitter at @TPEquality.

- According to Mayor Michael Bloomberg (I), the first year of New York marriage equality brought $259 million in new revenue to New York City.

- New Hampshire Speaker of the House Bill O’Brien (R) wants to try to repeal marriage equality again next year.

- Billionaire Paul Singer, who prominently supports Republican candidates, gave $150,000 to Maine’s marriage equality effort.

- Wisconsin state Rep. JoCasta Zamarripa (D) has come out as bi.

- If elected, Richard Tisei could become the first openly gay Republican to serve in Congress.

- Groups led by Pat Robertson, Rick Warren, and the Catholic Church have had a bigger role in spreading homophobia in Africa than was previously believed, but some American Christian leaders are speaking out against anti-homosexuality laws.

- AIDS denialist Bryan Fischer believes “Big Gay” wants “to go Ahmadinejad on Chick-fil-A.”

- Do some trans women use the military to try to “purge the feminine self?

- Watch one young trans woman’s transformation through a series of photos taken throughout her hormone replacement therapy.

- Explore the entire AIDS Quilt, all in one website.

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