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NYPD Says, ‘It Gets Better’ | The New York Police Department is the latest police department to record an “It Gets Better” video. The clip opens with Police Commissioner Ray Kelly reaffirming the bureau’s commitment to working with the LGBT community to protect its members from illegal harassment, abuse, and assault. School safety, anti-bullying, and hate crimes also remain priorities. Numerous police officers and detectives share their coming out stories. Watch it:

Media

13-Year-Old Girl Asks Easy Bake Oven To End Sexist Ads: ‘I Want My Brother To Know That It’s Not Wrong’ To Cook

Thirteen year old Mckenna Pope’s little brother loves to cook. But when he watches the commercials for a product he’s hoping to get for Christmas — the Easy Bake Oven — he only sees girls playing with the toy. Because of that, he believes that “only girls play with it.”

Pope is hoping to change that perception with a video and a petition. She is asking Hasboro — maker of the Easy Bake Oven — to start putting boys in their commercials, so that her little brother sees it’s okay for boys to cook:

[B]oys are not featured in packaging or promotional materials for Easy Bake Ovens — this toy my brother’s always dreamed about. And the oven comes in gender-specific hues: purple and pink.

I feel that this sends a clear message: women cook, men work. [...]

I want my brother to know that it’s not “wrong” for him to want to be a chef, that it’s okay to go against what society believes to be appropriate. There are, as a matter of fact, a multitude of very talented and successful male culinary geniuses, i.e. Emeril, Gordon Ramsey, etc. Unfortunately, Hasbro has made going against the societal norm that girls are the ones in the kitchen even more difficult.

Watch her appeal:

For a 13-year-old, Pope’s assessment is incredibly on-message with what experts understand about the link between confidence and gender stereotypes. Societal reinforcement of traditional gender roles can lead children to doubt their own ability, as evidenced by girls’ lack of confidence in mathematics based on their parents’ enforcement of gender stereotypes.

Pope’s petition has gathered over 18,000 signatures so far.

NEWS FLASH

Maine Marriage Equality Takes Effect December 29 | Marriage equality will officially take effect in Maine on December 29. State law requires that a ballot initiative cannot take effect until 30 days after the governor certifies the election results, which Gov. Paul LePage (R) did on November 29. Given the law takes effect on a Saturday, same-sex couples may not be able to get married until after the New Year’s when municipal offices reopen.

Pat Robertson: Confederate General Would Be Unhappy About Same-Sex Union At West Point

Pat Robertson

Pat Robertson

Televangelist and failed 1988 Republican presidential candidate Pat Robertson lamented on his 700 Club broadcast Monday that dead military figures would not have approved of the first same-sex weddings held at United States Military Academy at West Point. Among those who would be most upset, he suggested, was Gen. Robert E. Lee, whose status as an alum was arguably overshadowed in history books by his stint as commander of the Confederate Army.

Lee Webb, a anchor on the program announced what he termed the “sad” news that one of the members of the first-ever class of women to graduate from the Academy (in 1980) had married her partner of 17 years in the West Point Cadet Chapel. Robertson, creaking in his chair, expressed horror at the news, on behalf of the school’s dead alumni:

WEBB: The U.S. Military Academy at West Point hosted its first same-sex weddings. They were held over the past two weekends, one of them in the academy’s historic chapel. Army chaplains from other posts performed the ceremonies because the denominations of the West Point chaplains do not allow them to perform same-sex marriage ceremonies. New York legalized same-sex marriage last year; a few months later Don’t Ask Don’t Tell was repealed and gays were allowed to serve openly in the military. A sad day, Pat.

ROBERTSON: General Douglas MacArthur rolling over in his grave. Ulysses S. Grant rolling over in his. Robert E. Lee rolling over in his. What have we done to our cherished institution?

Watch the Right Wing Watch video:

(h/t: Blue Virginia)

NEWS FLASH

POLL: Majority Continues To Support Marriage Equality | A new CBS News poll shows that a majority of Americans — 51 percent — continue to support marriage equality, with only 41 percent opposed. Support is highest among those age 18-29 (72 percent), women (53 percent), those who are not married (57 percent), and Democrats and Independents (63 percent and 55 percent, respectively):

Justice

Meet Gubernatorial Candidate Ken Cuccinelli, Virginia’s Todd Akin

Virginia’s Republican Party appears poised to nominate state Attorney General Ken Cuccinelli to be its candidate for governor in 2013 — embracing a man whose extreme political views bear striking resemblance to those of unsuccessful 2012 Senate candidate Rep. Todd Akin (R-MO).

With his fervent anti-science, anti-choice, and anti-LGBT, anti-federal government activism, Akin’s extreme positions were well known long before his infamous August pronouncement that victims of “legitimate rape” are unlikely to become pregnant helped derail his 2012 U.S. Senate campaign. Cuccinelli’s views closely mirror Akin’s in all of those areas.

Over seven-and-a-half years as a Virginia state senator and three years as the commonwealth’s attorney general, Republican Ken Cuccinelli II has been, in the words of the Washington Post’s editorial board, “the most overtly partisan attorney general in Virginia’s history.” Though he claims he is “best known for his efforts to preserve liberty and defend the US Constitution,” it is his opposition to liberty for women and LGBT Americans and his frequent court losses based on his flawed constitutional theories that have defined his political career to date.

While perhaps not as careless as Akin with his rhetoric, Cuccinelli has embraced many of the same extreme positions:

1. He wants an abortion ban with no exceptions for rape or incest. His 2002 campaign website laid out Cuccinelli’s abortion views clearly: “Ken believes that human life begins at conception, and that human beings should be respected and protected from conception to natural death,” it said. “Ken would seek to require sonograms to be part of a 24-hour waiting period with an informed consent requirement. Ken opposes abortions that are not for the purpose of saving the mother’s life.” Over his political career, he has pushed to defund Planned Parenthood and embryonic stem cell research. He pushed for a ban on third trimester abortions — making no exception for serious health risks on the woman — and for “safety” regulations for abortion providers designed to force clinics to close. He has also highlighted his opposition to RU-486 and his support for a “conscience” law protecting the “right of professionals to refuse to perform an action that is inconsistent with their moral convictions” — such as providing emergency contraception — “without losing their job.” Cuccinelli frequently attacks Planned Parenthood and has suggested that the fact that abortion clinics in Virginia are in urban areas with large African American populations is an example of white racism. His “ultimate goal,” he has said, is to “make abortion disappear in America.”

2. He does not believe LGBT people deserve legal protections. Cuccinelli has made it clear that he believes same-sex relationships are immoral. In 2009, he told a Virginia newspaper, “My view is that homosexual acts, not homosexuality, but homosexual acts are wrong. They’re intrinsically wrong. And I think in a natural law based country it’s appropriate to have policies that reflect that.” After the U.S. Supreme Court ruled in its 2003 Lawrence v. Texas case that such bans were unconstitutional, he still voted against repealing a state law making consensual sodomy a felony. He has actively pushed for state and federal constitutional amendments to prevent any legal recogntition of what he terms “what they’d like to refer to as ‘homosexual families,’” authoring a resolution calling for a federal amendment to invalidate any same-sex marriage, civil union, domestic partnership, or “other relationship analogous to marriage.” He has opined that “giving public sanction to homosexual marriage ends up redefining marriage and it’s certain to harm children.” He even opposed a state bill that allowed private companies to voluntarily provide health insurance benefits to employees’ domestic partners, warning it might “encourage this type of behavior.” His advisory opinion that Virginia’s public colleges and universities should rescind their non-discrimination policies was called “reprehensible” by a former Republican state legislator.
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NEWS FLASH

SCOTUS Takes No Action On Marriage Equality | The Supreme Court put off until at least this Friday a decision on which, if any, of the various marriage equality cases on its docket it will hear. As a substantive matter, this delay means absolutely nothing. The Court is still overwhelmingly likely to hear one of the challenges to the unconstitutional Defense of Marriage Act, as the justices almost always agree to hear cases where a federal law was struck down by a federal appeals court. It is not certain, but still not entirely unlikely, that they will also agree to hear the challenge to California’s unconstitutional Proposition 8.

APA Revises Manual: Being Transgender Is No Longer A Mental Disorder

This Saturday, the American Psychiatric Association board of trustees approved the latest proposed revisions to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, what will now be known as the DSM-5. This marks a historic milestone for people who are transgender and gender non-conforming, as their identities are no longer classified as a mental disorder. Homosexuality was similarly declassified as a mental disorder in 1973.

Until now, the term “gender identity disorder” has been used to diagnose people who are transgender. For conservatives, this has provided rhetorical carte blanche to describe the entire trans committee as disordered, delusional, and mentally ill. In some cases, this diagnosis has even been used to discriminate against trans people, with claims that they are unfit parents or employees, as examples. On the other hand, insurance companies have been more willing to cover the expenses associated with transition under this language, because treatment for a disorder is considered medically necessary, rather than cosmetic.

The new manual will diagnose transgender people with “Gender Dysphoria,” which communicates the emotional distress that can result from “a marked incongruence between one’s experienced/expressed gender and assigned gender.” This will allow for affirmative treatment and transition care without the stigma of disorder. Earlier this year, the APA also released new health guidelines for transgender patients, as well as a position statement affirming transgender care and civil rights. Both documents align with a new standard for respecting trans people in the medical community.

It was only after homosexuality was declassified as a mental disorder that ex-gay ministries formed, protesting the medical community’s decision to affirm non-heterosexual orientations. Some dangerous ex-trans ministries exist already and are championed by Focus on the Family, NARTH, PFOX, and other anti-LGBT organizations. It’s possible that these efforts may similarly increase in the wake of this DSM revision.

Update

For further discussion on this topic, please see the follow-up post, “The Complicated Question Of Diagnosing Transgender Identities.”

NEWS FLASH

First Same-Sex Wedding Held In West Point Chapel | West Point graduate Brenda Sue Fulton married her partner Penelope Gnesin in the chapel at her alma mater, making them the first same-sex couple to legally wed in the U.S. Military Academy’s Cadet Chapel. None of the chaplains who preside in the chapel belong to denominations that allow them to bless same-sex marriages, so the ceremony was performed by a friend, Army Chaplain Col. J. Wesley Smith. When Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell was repealed, the Pentagon advised that use of military facilities would not discriminate based on sexual orientation so long as such use does not violate state or local laws. Fulton and Gnesin have been together for 17 years:

(Photo Credit: Jeff Sheng.)

Pennsylvania Republican Lawmaker Comes Out, Disavows Ex-Gay Therapy

Brian Sims (D) was set to become Pennsylvania’s first openly gay state lawmaker when he takes office in January, but now Republican Rep. Mike Fleck has beat him to it. Fleck, an Eagle Scout and Liberty University graduate, came out privately last year after years of trying to deny his sexual orientation and the end of his marriage to his wife. Now he’s gone public with his story, describing the long struggle to reconcile his Christianity with being gay:

FLECK: I sought out treatment from a Christian counselor, but when that didn’t work out, I engaged a secular therapist who told me point blank that I was gay and that I was too caught up in being the perfect Christian rather than actually being authentic and honest.

Through years of counseling, I’ve met a lot of gay Christians who have tried hard to change their God-given sexual orientation, but at the end of the day, I know of none who’ve been successful. They’ve only succeeded at repressing their identity, only to have it reappear time and time again and always wreaking havoc not only on themselves, but especially on their family.

Fleck says he has no plans to change the way he votes in the Assembly. Representing one of the most conservative districts in Pennsylvania, he has been criticized for only being a moderate Republican.

The Morning Pride: December 3, 2012

Welcome to The Morning Pride, ThinkProgress LGBT’s daily round-up of the latest in LGBT policy, politics, and some culture too! Here’s what we’re reading this morning, but please let us know what stories you’re following as well. Follow us all day on Twitter at @TPEquality.

- LGBT activists and allies protested outside the Uganda embassy in Washington, DC on Saturday.

- The Respect for Marriage Act (which repeals the Defense of Marriage Act) has a record number of supporters in Congress.

- The anti-gay Salvation Army has chosen the conservative, homophobic, and recently-disgraced Dinesh D’Souza to host their 2012 annual luncheon.

- What can Maine schools do to better protect transgender students and model respect?

- A lot of people are not happy that East Aurora School District is reconsidering a trans-inclusive policy for students.

- London’s G-A-Y Bar has broken its previous Guinness World Record for the highest number of HIV tests carried out on World AIDS Day.

- Canada’s Sexual Assault Voices of Edmonton (SAVE) has launched a new gay-inclusive campaign to raise awareness about sexual assault.

- More Australian states are considering marriage equality.

- The country’s first transgender mayor, Stu Rasmussen of Silverton, Oregon, now has a musical about him. (Listen to Radiolab‘s profile about Stu’s election.)

- An Israeli court has granted the country’s first gay divorce.

- Jon Cornish, leading rusher for the Calgary Stampeders, used his acceptance speech when named the Canada Football League’s Most Outstanding Canadian to thank his two moms.

- Sir Ian McKellen would like to return to Middle Earth (New Zealand) to get married:

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