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Colorado Senate Committee Advances Civil Unions Bill

Colorado civil union supporters

Credit: Craig F. Walker, The Denver Post

The Colorado Senate’s Judiciary Committee advanced a bill to authorize civil unions Wednesday, on a 3-2 vote. The bill now moves to the Senate Appropriations Committee. All three committee Democrats voted in favor, the two Republicans voted no.

A similar bill passed the Democratic-controlled Colorado Senate last year, but died after then-House Speaker Frank McNulty (R) resorted to a series of maneuvers to prevent the from coming up for a vote, subverting the majority in the state and in the House.

The voters responded by electing a Democratic House majority in November and now Colorado’s Speaker of the House is openly gay Rep. Mark Ferrandino (D) — the bill’s chief House sponsor. McNulty is no longer even in the House minority leadership.

Gov. John Hickenlooper (D) tweeted during the committee hearing: “Civil unions is about justice and economic prosperity. We’ve said before, saying again: Pass this bill!”

High School Student Comes Out And Receives Standing Ovation From Classmates

High school senior Jacob Rudolph won an award from his classmates at Parsippany High School in New Jersey on Sunday for “Class Actor.” In a courageous move captured by his father for YouTube, Jacob used the opportunity to inform them that he’d been doing a lot more acting than they realized and came out as LGBT in a brief stirring speech:

RUDOLPH: Sure I’ve been in a few plays and musicals, but more importantly, I’ve been acting every single day of my life. You see, I’ve been acting as someone I’m not. Most of you see me every day. You see me acting the part of ‘straight’ Jacob, when I am in fact an LGBT teen. [...]

Unlike millions of other LGBT teens who have had to act every day to avoid verbal harassment and physical violence, I’m not going to do it anymore. It’s time to end the hate in our society and accept the people for who they are regardless of their sex, race, orientation, or whatever else may be holding back love and friendship. So take me, leave me, or move me out of the way. Because I am what I am, and that’s how I’m going to act from now on.

Watch the speech and the crowd’s incredibly positive reaction:

Jacob explained that he identifies as “LGBT,” as opposed to gay or bi specifically because he is still figuring out his identity. After his courageous speech, he felt “like this immense weight was gone. I’d been carrying it around with me for years. It affected me academically, emotionally, socially.” He also admitted to NJ.com that he’s single, adding, ”That’s not why I made the announcement, but I guess it’s a bonus.”

Key Anti-Gay Republican: GOP Has Lost The Marriage Equality Fight

Prominent anti-gay advocate Gary Bauer admitted on Wednesday that his party cannot keep up with the change in public opinion on marriage equality, according to an interview with the conservative religious organization LifeSiteNews. Bauer, a former president of the Family Research Council who remains influential in certain evaneglical and Republican circles, ran a super PAC during the 2012 election that attacked President Obama on his support for marriage equality. While Bauer suggested after the election that then-presidential candidate Mitt Romney would have won over critical minority voters by attacking LGBT rights, he’s now admitting that he was mistaken:

The coalition in favor of normal marriage has been made up of political conservatives and American minority groups, including Hispanics and blacks. But the president’s so-called ‘evolution’ on this issue has resulted in what appears to be a major shift among blacks and Hispanics toward favoring same-sex marriage.

Bauer added that, despite the collapse of his so-called “coalition in favor of normal marriage,” the GOP would not change its position on marriage equality, saying “virtually all the candidates that competed for the GOP nomination this cycle supported traditional marriage. The party platform unambiguously did, also. I think that will be the case again in 2016.” He also suggested that the GOP could do very little to shift public opinion, admitting that “I don’t think we can expect the Republican Party to save us.”

Though Bauer suggests that “the church” can save Republicans from defeat on this issue through more vocal anti-gay activism, that’s not likely. The trend towards greater public support for marriage equality is deep and longstanding, and results from the 2012 election prove that even intense efforts by anti-equality groups to “race-wedge” on marriage will not work, as minority voters (an increasingly large percentage of the electorate) tend to support marriage equality.

Ex-Gay Leader Explains Bizarre Interpretation Of Gay Porn

There was much in-fighting within the ex-gay movement last year after Exodus International, a religious umbrella group for ex-gay ministries, said it would no longer try to “cure” homosexuality. A revelation as a result of that “rift” was evidence that Joseph Nicolosi, founder of NARTH, uses pornography in his “therapy” to supposedly help clients “imagine” having different attractions, despite his claims to the contrary. Last week, NARTH posted an article by Nicolosi about “overcoming gay pornography” that reveals just how warped the organization’s understanding of pornography and sexuality truly is.

According to Nicolosi, gay men are drawn to gay porn because it fulfills three “emotional needs” that result from the compromised masculinity he believes is causing them to be gay. The first is apparently body envy, in which the client feels inadequate in comparison to the porn actors’ “muscularity, body hair, large build, and the archetypal image of masculinity, a large penis.”  The second is assertive attitude, in which men are drawn to the “directness, non-inhibition, and bold aggression” of the porn actors. Lastly, Nicolosi identifies “vulnerable sharing,” in which clients are attracted to the “open sharing of emotions” portrayed when two men are together.

In other words, Nicolosi believes gay men are weak, body-conscious cowards who are desperate for loving attention from other men. And his solution? Make some friends:

As the client comes to identify how he projects onto the porn image his unmet needs and more importantly, as he fulfills those needs in real male friendships, the compelling power of the porn image diminishes. Clinical reports tell us that the client may eventually find such images not only uninteresting and non-arousing, but repulsive and disgusting in the same way that such images are experienced by heterosexual men.

Whether or not Nicolosi uses gay or straight porn in his therapy doesn’t change how distorted his understanding of how it intersects with sexuality. Straight men don’t generally look at women in porn because they have body envy, so it’s bogus to draw such conclusions about gay men. Maybe gay men look at gay porn because they’re sexually attracted to what they see and want to experience the same kind of affection with other men. No “friendship” is going to replace the desire for intimacy almost everybody shares, let alone diminish the attractions anybody has.

Republican House Leader Vows To Use ‘Power Of Humiliation’ To Undermine LGBT Program

Rep. James Lankford (R-OK)

The fifth-ranking House Republican took a shot at the LGBT community at a recent town hall, saying he wanted to use “the power of humiliation” to undermine a program that helps individuals who need substance abuse treatment.

Rep. James Lankford (R-OK), who at the same Oklahoma City meeting earlier this month blamed gun violence on “welfare moms”, took a question from a constituent irate about a program that counseled LGBT individuals with substance abuse problems. The woman accused the Substances and Mental Health Services Administration of “pushing the homosexual agenda” and “indoctrinating our citizens.”

Lankford agreed with the woman’s concern, vowing to open an investigation into the matter. “They love functioning in the dark,” the Oklahoma Republican said of the LGBT program, promising to use “the power of humiliation” to uproot it.

CONSTITUENT: I want to know if you’re aware of the Substances and Mental Health Services Administration that has a book called the Provider’s Introduction to Substance Abuse Treatment for Lesbian, Bisexual, Gay and Transgender Individuals.

LANKFORD: Wow.

CONSTITUENT: They are going around the nation, they just did this here in Oklahoma, December 7th, and having conferences that are educational. [...] About 2 percent of the conference is dealing with substance abuse and mental health issues. 98 percent is doing indoctrination or pushing the homosexual agenda. This is what our president is doing. He has a federal agency doing it. Our state, the Oklahoma Mental Health and Substance Abuse Department, put this conference on and is indoctrinating our citizens who are totally against this. Is there any way you can look into this?

LANKFORD: Oh yes, sure. You know I can absolutely get a chance to take a look at it. We’ll start the process, try to see what we can do to identify it. Some of those things you have the power of humiliation where you can raise it and put in sunlight. They love functioning in the dark. You put some sunlight on it, that does help. But, we’ll see. I’m glad to take that on.

Watch it:

The Susbstance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration’s efforts have been critical in supporting LGBT people with problems ranging from substance abuse to bullying. Drug abuse factors can be far different for LGBT youth than straight youth, stemming in many cases from family rejection. Cutting the program, as Lankford seems to favor, would be devastating for already-underserved LGBT individuals.

Lankford has already earned an anti-LGBT reputation stemming from his past statements on the Employment Non-Discrimination Act. ThinkProgress asked the congressman last year whether LGBT workers should be legally protected from workplace discrimination. Lankford shot down the proposal, calling homosexuality “a choice issue.”

Update

The woman questioning Lankford, referred to as “Sally”, appears to be Oklahoma State Rep. Sally Kern (R), who in the past has argued that “gays are an even bigger threat than terrorism.” ThinkProgress called Kern’s office to confirm and will update once we hear back.

Ravens Player Hopes To Use Super Bowl To Promote Equality

Baltimore Ravens linebacker Brendon Ayanbadejo was an outspoken advocate for marriage equality during the campaign in Maryland last year, but his support has not waned since that victorious conclusion. Now that the Ravens are bound for the Super Bowl, he wants to use that visibility to promote equality on a bigger scale:

He tapped out an email to Brian Ellner, a leading marriage-equality advocate with whom he had worked before, and Michael Skolnik, the political director for Russell Simmons, a hip-hop mogul who has become involved in many issues, including same-sex marriage.

Ayanbadejo wrote: “Is there anything I can do for marriage equality or anti- bullying over the next couple of weeks to harness this Super Bowl media?” The time stamp on the email was 3:40:35 A.M.

Ayanbadejo joked that this was his “Jerry Maguire email,” and told Frank Bruni at the New York Times that he’s really excited about the opportunity to do more:

“It’s one of those times when you’re really passionate and in your zone,” Ayanbadejo told me, referring to Maguire’s movie moment and to his own real-life one, in the wee hours of Monday morning. “And I got to thinking about all kinds of things, and I thought: how can we get our message out there?”

He may have his sights on winning the Super Bowl, but he’s looking past that too:

“That’s my ultimate goal after the Super Bowl,” Ayanbadejo told me. “To go on Ellen’s show, to be dancing with her, to bust a move with her.”

In addition to Ellner and Skolnik, he has reached out to Hudson Taylor, founder of Athlete Ally, to explore opportunities to do more to combat bullying and homophobia in athletics.

Ayanbadejo is the model of a straight ally: a football star who just found out he was going to the Super Bowl and reacted by asking what he could do to support the LGBT community. Plenty of individuals will step up when asked, but it’s the ones who take their own initiative who make the biggest difference.

Pat Buchanan: Stonewall Was Just A ‘Barroom Brawl’

Among the many conservative responses to President Obama’s second inaugural address was commentator Pat Buchanan, who appeared on Fox News to decry the President’s inclusion of various social issues. He described the speech as “not uplifting,” “not really poetry,” “pedestrian,” and “deeply partisan” but specifically attacked the reference to the Stonewall Riots:

BUCHANAN: This is a cross between a State of the Union speech with an agenda and a partisan rally given to the DNC. And so, I think, the president lost a real opportunity. Look, they usually talk about what? When I was a kid, Lexington and Concord and Bunker Hill. What was he talking about? Stonewall. That’s a barroom brawl in Greenwich Village in 1969, when cops were hassling gays in their bar, and the gays fought back and threw them all out. Does that belong in a presidential inaugural?

Jon Stewart took Buchanan to task on Tuesday night’s The Daily Show, retorting, “For the losing side of history, I’m Pat Buchanan.” Watch it:

Diminishing Stonewall to a “barroom brawl” is the equivalent of referring to Selma as a “street fight” or Seneca Falls as a “spa retreat.” It fails to recognize the historic turning point that Stonewall symbolized, including the launch of forthright activism through groups like the Gay Liberation Front and the first pride march. Given Buchanan’s penchant for attacking any kind of social justice, perhaps he resented the mere suggestion that gays and lesbians have had any kind of struggle for equality whatsoever.

Justice

House GOP To Supreme Court: Gay People Are Too Powerful To Get Equal Rights

An African-American leader addresses one of the most influential, best-connected, best-funded, and best organized interest groups of the 1960s.

For nearly two years, House Republicans paid conservative superlawyer Paul Clement $520 an hour to defend the anti-gay Defense of Marriage Act in federal court — and then sent the bill to the American taxpayer. In total Clement has now cost the American people up to $3 million for his efforts on behalf of this unconstitutional law. Last night, we taxpayers finally found out what we were paying for — a 60 page brief explaining why the justices should leave marriage discrimination untouched.

As decades of precedent establish that the Constitution should provide a shield to minority groups when prejudice leaves them without adequate recourse to the political process, Clement includes a section discussing just how very powerful and completely capable of vindicating their rights at the ballot box gay men and lesbians have become. Same-sex marriage is supported by President Obama and Vice President Biden! Less than half of Congress filed a brief agreeing with them! A magazine once wrote an article about how influential the Human Rights Campaign is! For the first time in history, an entire 1 percent of the Senate is openly gay!

After touting the immense political clout of a group that, after 226 years of American democracy, finally managed to elect a single person to the upper house of Congress, Clement then drops this line:

In short, gays and lesbians are one of the most influential, best-connected, best-funded, and best organized interest groups in modern politics, and have attained more legislative victories, political power, and popular favor in less time than virtually any other group in American history. . . . Gays and lesbians not only have the attention of lawmakers, they are winning many legislative battles. And the importance of this factor in the analysis cannot be gainsaid. . . . [G]iven that the ultimate inquiry focuses on whether a group needs the special intervention of the courts or whether issues should be left for the democratic process, the political strength of gays and lesbians in the political process should be outcome determinative here.

One can only wonder what Paul Clement might have written if Virginia had hired him to defend their practice of racial marriage discrimination when it was before the justices in 1967. “Negro leaders meet often with the President and with Congressional leaders, and indeed, President Johnson himself signed two major laws pushed by the Negro lobby. Negro groups not only led a widely attended rally on the National Mall, but they routinely organize well-attended sit-ins, marches and other events that garner press attention and national sympathy. Recently, a Negro march at the Edmund Pettus Bridge in Alabama even sparked the President of the United States to give a speech endorsing the Negro lobby’s agenda before a joint session of Congress.”

Because, of course, if the fact that gay people have won a few political battles lately were reason to deny them the equal protection of the laws, then the same would also be true about African-Americans and women. Lyndon Johnson signed the Voting Rights Act two years before Virginia lost its marriage discrimination case in the Supreme Court. The Civil Rights Act of 1964 promised equal treatment to women in the workplace — a promise still denied to gay men and lesbians — seven years before the justices first recognized that official discrimination against women violates the Constitution. Political victories do not cancel out Americans’ constitutional rights, they augment them, and Clement is simply wrong to suggest otherwise.

Ultimately, the sheer absurdity of Clement’s argument exposes why his claims must not prevail at the Supreme Court. The Constitution of Seneca Falls and Selma is also the Constitution of Stonewall. Clement’s argument would deny all three.

The Morning Pride: January 23, 2012

Welcome to The Morning Pride, ThinkProgress LGBT’s daily round-up of the latest in LGBT policy, politics, and some culture too! Here’s what we’re reading this morning, but please let us know what stories you’re following as well. Follow us all day on Twitter at @TPEquality.

- “From Stonewall to Homeless,” a look at the challenge of the growing LGBT aging population.

- Montana might finally repeal its outdated law criminalizing sodomy.

- A nondiscrimination bill is advancing in the Virginia legislature.

- Did the state of Georgia violate a resident’s free speech by denying him vanity license plates that advocate for gay rights?

- A Christian-run Nashville music venue fired an employee who wore a band shirt that also expressed support for same-sex marriage.

- Ireland’s Equality Tribunal has ruled in favor of a gay employee who complained that he was discriminated against because of his sexual orientation.

- Nepal has introduced gender-neutral citizen documents for people who do not wish to be identified as male or female.

- U.S. Women’s Soccer star Megan Rapinoe has partnered with GLSEN to speak out against homophobic language:

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