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Economy

Long Hours Are Pushing Mothers Out Of Male-Dominated Jobs

While progress was steadily made to integrate women into traditionally male jobs for many decades, in recent years the rate has slowed considerably. There are many factors that lead men and women to end up in different occupations, but a new study has found that one big reason, particularly when it comes to women with children, is overwork. Youngjoo Cha of Indiana University has found that mothers are much more likely to leave male-dominated occupations if they work more than 50 hours a week, but that the same doesn’t hold true for childless women or men:

While overwork is an expected norm in many male-dominated occupations, women, especially mothers, are structurally less able to meet this expectation because their time is subject to family demands more than is men’s time. […]

Using longitudinal data drawn from the Survey of Income and Program Participation, I show that mothers are more likely to leave male-dominated occupations when they work 50 hours or more per week, but the same effect is not found for men or childless women. Results also show that overworking mothers are more likely to exit the labor force entirely, and this pattern is specific to male-dominated occupations. These findings demonstrate that the norm of overwork in male-dominated workplaces and the gender beliefs operating in the family combine to reinforce gender segregation of the labor market.

The numbers are striking: being a mother increases an overworked woman’s odds of leaving a male-dominated occupation by 52 percent compared to her childless peers. Meanwhile, long hours don’t have any impact on fathers or women without children.

The conclusion is that work/family conflicts drive workers out of male-dominated jobs, which tend to have a higher expectation of working long hours. This problem is landing hard on women in particular, however, because they still do the majority of care work. Today’s mothers spend about twice as much time with children as fathers do and even more time than they did in the 1960s before so many entered the workforce.

The length of the working day has been growing over recent years. Between 1979 and 2000, the study reports, the proportion of workers putting in 50 hours or more per week increased by six percentage points for both genders. The U.S. stands out in this regard: Americans put in more hours than many other developed countries. Out of 33, the U.S. is in the top 14 for the number of hours worked. Norway, the Netherlands, and Germany, all of which put in fewer hours, rank among the top countries in the world for work/life balance. The U.S. ranks eighth-to-last.

Meanwhile, the country has made little progress in enacting improved work/family policies. A new report from the Center for American Progress’s Judith Warner points to the Family and Medical Leave Act, the Child and Dependent Care Tax Credit, and the Child Care and Development Block Grant, as well as some state policies for paid sick leave, paid parental leave, and increased preschool access, as important but rare victories for working parents. But as the report notes, better policies can help businesses, boost the economy, and pay off for politicians who promote them.

Economy

Why Single Mothers Are In Economic Crisis And What Can Be Done About It

The new report from Pew on modern parenthood is filled with important data about how Americans are handling a variety of work and family issues. Reading through the report, the most glaring conclusion for progressives is that unmarried mothers are in dire financial straits, facing much worse economic conditions than most other people in America.   Look at this table:

A full 61 percent of unmarried mothers report income of less than $30,000 per year.  In contrast, a roughly similar proportion (62 percent) of married mothers report family incomes of $50,000 or more annually.   What does this mean for single mothers? As this chart highlights, it means the recession really crushed them and they need decent-paying, full-time jobs:


Nearly half of unmarried mothers in 2012 said that their ideal situation would be to work full time (49 percent) — almost double the percentage from 2007 (26 percent).  The percentage of married mothers reporting a desire for full time work also increased but at a much lower rate (23 percent in 2012 vs. 17 percent in 2007).  Pew also finds that among working moms, “there is a significant gap between those who are married and unmarried in terms of the value they place on having a high-paying job. Only 26 percent of those who are married say this is extremely important to them personally, while 39 percent of those who are unmarried say having a high paying job is extremely important.”

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Justice

Air Force Dis-Enrolls Woman For Getting Pregnant Out Of Wedlock

Rebecca Edmonds with her father after being commissioned

Weeks before being commissioned as an officer in the U.S. Air Force, Rebecca Edmonds found out she was pregnant. But she was unmarried, so the Air Force removed her from the ranks and accused her of committing fraud because, as Edmonds would learn, single parents are forbidden from enlisting in the Air Force, according ton CNN:

Thirteen weeks into her pregnancy, she was sworn in by her father as a second lieutenant and started making plans to go to Virginia to begin her military service. Nearly six months into her pregnancy, she said, she told her new commanders that she was going to have a child, and they told her they didn’t think it would be a problem.

But they were wrong. Citing a contract she signed in 2007 when she enrolled in ROTC at age 18, the Air Force said she committed a fraud by not reporting a change in her medical condition, as indicated in the contract. [...]

Edmonds said she asked the officer who informed her that she was being ejected from the Air Force, “Had I terminated the pregnancy before my commissioning, would I have been able to commission at that point?” And, according to Edmonds, “He said, ‘Well. Technically, yes.’ That was the hardest part of all of this. Someone telling me to my face that had I gotten an abortion, then I would be eligible for service.”

After she was “dis-enrolled” from the Air Force, Edmonds challenged the decision and appealed to her congressman, Rep. Paul Ryan. According to CNN, Col. Kelly L. Goggins wrote in response to Ryan’s inquiry into the case that Edmonds would have been able to stay in the Air Force if she was married or gave the child up for adoption. Another officer told Edmonds that she would have been able to be commissioned as an officer if she had had an abortion. “That was the hardest part of all of this. Someone telling me to my face that had I gotten an abortion, then I would be eligible for service,” she said.

In a statement to CNN, an Air Force official said non-married service members would never be told to give up their children. Currently, Edmonds’ case is being reviewed “at the highest levels.”

Edmonds’ removal from the military because she refused to give up her child or get married is not the first example of female service members having difficult with the military culture and regulations — two active-duty women were reprimanded after being photographed breastfeeding in uniform. But Edmonds’ mother, Karen Edmonds, said she hoped that when Defense Secretary Leon Panetta praised the end of the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy and committed “to removing all the barriers that would prevent Americans from serving their country,” that applied to mothers in the military as well.

NEWS FLASH

Women Behind Breastfeeding Military Moms Photograph Fired, Reprimanded | The woman who orchestrated a series of photographs featuring mothers who served in the military breastfeeding their children has been fired from her job. Chrystal Scott, the spokeswoman for military mom support group Mom2Mom, said she was fired from her civilian job as an X-ray technician after the initial uproar over the images, and she told the online news program Right This Minute that the two active-duty women in the photo had been reprimanded by the military for their involvement. The publication of the photos triggered a heated debate over what qualifies as inappropriate behavior while in military attire.

Election

Ann Romney: ‘I Love The Fact That There Are Women Out There Who Don’t Have A Choice’ And ‘Must Go To Work’

In an emotional speech about the difficulty of motherhood and life on the campaign trail, Ann Romney used an odd choice of words to discuss mothers who are forced to work while raising their children.

Ann Romney was at the center of a national discussion recently after a Democratic consultant charged that the would-be future first lady couldn’t possibly understand the plight of working mothers because she had the luxury to stay home and devote herself full time to raising her kids. The Romney campaign fired back, accusing Democrats of lacking respect for stay at home moms.

The issue was largely dismissed after a few days as a ginned-up “silly season” controversy, but Ann Romney’s comments last night at the Connecticut Republican Party’s Prescott Bush Awards Dinner could potentially reignite the issue. After discussing how she understands the challenges mothers face, Romney said, according to BuzzFeed:

Romney alluded to the fact that not all women can stay at home saying, “I love the fact that there are women out there who don’t have a choice and they must go to work and they still have to raise the kids. Thank goodness that we value those people too. And sometimes life isn’t easy for any of us.”

It seems Romney was trying to express empathy for women who don’t have the option to stay at home, as she did. But the comment that she “love[s]” that some women “don’t have a choice” and must work is unusual, to say the least, and could lead to a new round of charges that the Romneys don’t understand average Americans, given their enormous wealth.

Nearly two-thirds of women are the breadwinner or co-bread winner in their households. Nonetheless, the gender pay gap remains. And while Mitt Romney has broken with most Republicans to support the Lilly Ledbetter Fair Pay Act, he has still not yet taken a position on the Paycheck Fairness Act.

Election

Romney Book: ‘Nonworking Parents’ Produce ‘Indolent And Unproductive’ Children

As the presidential campaign has become embroiled in “mommy wars,” a passage from Mitt Romney’s autobiography sheds more light on what seems to be his bifurcated prescription for mothers.

For most women, Romney maintains that a choice to work or to stay at home with the kids should be regarded as equally valid, his campaign made clear last week. But for poor women who receive government assistance, staying home is not an option — they should work. Video recovered yesterday shows that Romney said in January that he wants to “increase the work requirement” for mothers who receive welfare. “Those parents [need] to go back to work,” he explained.

A passage from Romney’s book, No Apology: The Case For American Greatness, elaborates on this. In it, he argues that children of “nonworking parents” will be conditioned to have “an indolent and unproductive life:”

In some quarters, however, the American work ethic is waning. Some people devote themselves to find ways not to work. Some seem to take a perverse kind of pride in being slipshod or lackadaisical. In many cases, where our work culture has deteriorated, shortsighted government policies share a good part of the blame.

Welfare without work erodes the spirit and the sense of self-worth of the recipient. And it conditions the children of nonworking parents to an indolent and unproductive life. Hardworking parents raise hardworking kids; we should recognize that the opposite is also true. The influence of the work habits of our parents and other adults around us as we grow up has lasting impact.

While Romney’s sentiment is understandable and common among conservatives, it doesn’t fit easily with his view that all “all moms are working moms.” He’s quoted in Michael Kranish and Scott Helman’s book The Real Romney as saying motherhood is its own profession. “It’s one which is challenging, it’s demanding,” he said. “It requires being a psychologist, a psychoanalyst, an engineer, a teacher,” he added.

If nonworking mothers on welfare produce “indolent and unproductive” children, then why doesn’t the same hold true for other women?

No one is questioning the difficulty or value of motherhood, but many critics have pointed out that while Romney’s wife was able to devote herself full time to the work of the house, other women must juggle both home life and a job to supplement their partners’ incoming. Meanwhile, millions of other mothers — including a disproportionate number on welfare — have to do all of this on their own, without a partner.

Alyssa

‘Bones’ Finds A Brave Approach To Romantic Comedy And Motherhood

I’ve been writing a lot about the state of romantic comedy recently, and I’ll admit all of my thinking played into some anxiety I was feeling about the return of Bones. I know not everyone here loves the show or the character as much as I do, but I had a real fear that the show would decide that pregnancy would instantly transform one of the prickliest, most independent mainstream female television characters into a miraculously empathetic earth mother.

The thing about Bones is that a lot of the time, she’s kind of jerk, or refuses to behave in ways that would make people see her as a person and then gets frustrated when they’re hurt or angry with her. Sometimes, this can result in a breakthrough, as in the first-season episode where, goaded by a prosecutor who describes her as cold and unfeeling, she finds a way to explain how her extreme rationality is meant as a gesture of respect to victims. And sometimes, she just causes a mess, as when she tries to date two men at once, one for sex, and one for intellectual companionship, using technicalities to convince herself she’s not exclusive with either one and giving neither the respect of trying to engage with them on another level. But Bones has built a good life in part by making good use of her independence. She’s traveled and solved crimes around the world. She dates without anxiety about any artificial set of rules, which makes me more thankful than I can possibly say. When Sully asked her to quit her job and sail around the world with him, she said no because supporting him in pursuing his dream would have meant giving up hers entirely.

And so when she gets pregnant, it’s something she’s wanted, but the show also acknowledges that it comes with costs. When Angela told her on last night’s episode that she’d never be alone again, it was comforting, but it also means that Bones’ life is going to change radically, expanding in some ways that she can’t predict and being curtailed in others where she knows the concrete benefit. When she gets prickly about the prospect of giving up her apartment, it’s because we know that she has a really great apartment that’s a product of the money she’s earned and her travel. And when she gets all rigid and anthropological about Booth’s insistence that they get their own place rather than moving in to hers, it’s an illustration of a tough fact: that Bones may not really have the emotional skills to be in a long-term relationship yet, and she’s going to have to pick them up fairly quickly. That’s the basis for a really interesting and more-honest-than-usual romantic comedy.

Alyssa

Resisting Motherhood In ‘We Need To Talk About Kevin’

It’s almost unfortunate that We Need to Talk About Kevin, both Lionel Shriver’s novel and the upcoming movie adaptation of it, are about a teenage spree killer, because even though it’s brilliantly written and originally structured, a serial killer origin story that names bad parenting as a root cause is ultimately a bit of a cliche:

But the idea that someone just wouldn’t like being a mother, or more specifically, would dislike one of her own children, is one of the more impermissible emotions out there. There’s less plot arc in simmering resentment, loathing, and mutual discomfort than there is in murder, but I’m glad that someone’s bringing prestige to bear in exploring the topic no matter how melodramatic the framing. We Need to Talk About Kevin is a drastic corrective to the saccharineness of our romantic comedies, but it’s a useful and forceful assertion that not everyone has the same happily ever after.

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